hi,
there is a girl that a man loves (and his crush definitely), but he's too shy to say it to her. what should this man do?
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2006-07-12 19:41:41 · 20 answers · asked by GunBouND Helena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe a letter or a friend telling her would be better for this man. However, the better way to do it is to confront that person yourself no matter how much you fear rejection, the feeling of rejection doesn't last and what worse can happen than her saying no? Yes, it's upsetting when someone rejects you, but you should look at it as your opportunity to move on and find someone else. But if he's really stubborn and there's no way this man could get himself to just ask in front of her, then the second approach would be a letter, email isn't very dependable, and if you have a friend tell her he might mess things up instead.
2006-07-12 19:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alo, ou kwa? the messenger or something? serye ou!!!
You just tell her. She may not say it back, but she will feel flatered that you love her. It shouldn't change things between you. If I knew you both, I would have some better advice. But bottom line, you just tell her how you feel and go from there.
You don't need to tell her at first. Just show her that you love her by helping her do whatever she is doing, take her to romantic places, buy her nice things, the most important things is to make her feel good around you, show her that you care about her (remember that action speaks louder than words), take things slowly, then step by step things will happen naturally. the key point is not to tell her your feelings, but make her feel you emotions and she will express her love to you. Trust me, that is how I won my girl, I never told her anything, I made her feel it, and that is just the sweetest thing.
You just tell her how you feel. If it truly love that your feeling than tell her. If your scared or nervous than you better rethink your feelings somemore, because when you tell a woman that you love them, your actually saying that you are laying everything out in the open for that person.
If you think that she will be okay after you tell her and it won't scare her out of a friendship, then I suggest you pick an appropriate moment. I would tell her when the two of you are uninterrupted and alone, and pose it in a way that you can make her feel comfortable. Make sure you dont leave it too long else she may not realise and you could lose out to someone else.
First start by letting her know you are interested. Then as you get to know her better then you can pick a romantic spot and come right out and say it.
Tell her about your feelings and let her know you are in love with her. If she can't handle it and runs away the relationship wasn't real. As they say, "keep it real."
Be honest and straightforward. That's always the best thing in relationships.
You don't. Let her tell you that. Give her the mixed signals that you like her but practice the rule of three 'C's. Control (for Self-Control), Confident and Challenge. Practice 'Self-Control' and 'Confident' whenever you are with her or on dates. And of utmost important be a 'Challenge' to her. Don't be Mr. Predictable as most guys are as if they haven't seen a beautiful girl in ages. Let her think of you when you are not around. And you sure would get what you want.
2006-07-13 02:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and say it my friend, life is too short to not be bold! I'll give you an example, how about you give me the best answer for this amazingly intellectual answer. Why not live life to the fullest and take the bull by the horns. If you love her tell her, it is a wonderful thing to say and to feel.
2006-07-13 02:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be shy and ask her if she wants to go out somewhere, eat breakfast or movies.
If you never ask youll never get anywhere.
Ask if she has a b-friend, if not, you have a big opportunity!
Because i started that way with my husband and he was EXTREMLY shy! But findly he asked me for a date and i was convinced and now we are happily in love and married with a baby boy on the way!
If you dont ask nothing will happen,
Good luck!
Sincerely, conejos06
2006-07-13 02:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say ...Why waste time let her know how you feel..She ain't going to know if you don't tell her and you aren't going to know until you say something to her........It is hard when you are shy but you know what ? You need to stand tall and put the shyness in your pocket so to speak and tell her.....Good Luck
2006-07-13 02:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her frankly. I've been in the same situation and when I told the girl, it was so great that I regretted for not telling her before!
2006-07-13 03:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by kreolkavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess I could send her some flowers...
Or, drop her a note with some romantic wordings
such as:
If you are hungry, can I be your honey pie?
If you are cold, can I be your leg warmer?
If you are a princess, can I be the beast?
2006-07-13 02:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Befriend her friends to draw her closer to you and eventually when you get to know her more (deeply), you'll find out that courage will start to pump up from you.. know her weakness and be her strenght..
2006-07-13 02:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should write it down. sometimes speaking it in person is harder then doing it some other way. writing it will easy the pain and will give him a chance to think everything through.
2006-07-13 02:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahah i love how everyone assumes that "man" is you..and i say the possibility of it is..99% true ahha good luck
2006-07-13 02:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋