I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. We have been seeing each other since last september. He is 42 and I am 28. He has not worked since October. He tried to get his own business going but that didnt work. He does not have a car or his license, drinks all the time and gets on the internet and talks to other women. He keeps telling me that he is going to get a job and dont. He moved in with me in January. I pay for everything. I hate that he gets on the internet and talks to women. When I question him about it he tells me that i am stupid and jealous. I made him move out and now he is staying with my neighbor and her daughter. I am affraid he is sleeping with the daughter. I love him so much and dont know what to do? please help me
2006-07-12 19:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says that he loves me and wants to marry me but wouldnt he work if he did?
2006-07-12 19:50:54 · update #1
He sounds like he isn't worth your time. If he isn't at all willing to commit to only you, and put his life together, and contribute emotionally and financially to the relationship, then as hard as it sounds, he's a waste of time no matter how much you may love him. Find someone who will fulfill all of your needs and make you feel really happy about yourself. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-12 19:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes dump the guy. he is bumming off u and damn he's 42 no car lincense thats crazy. everybody drinks thats ok but when he was living with u he should have respected ur feeling on chatting to other women. u c if he did love u he would have listened and how could u love someone like that. so ur kicking him out was a good thing and if hes boning the neighbor good 4 him. i think u should just forget him and go out with ur friends and have fun. ur single girl go get ur groove on. so dump him when u get this make it official and dont worry bout him. he sounds like loser and u dont need that. so thats my advice 4 u if u take it kool. i hope u do well good luck
2006-07-13 03:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love a guy that u kicked out of ur own house pay for everything when he should talks to women online and drinks constantly wow u r in serious need of sum help if i was u i would dump his *** now
2006-07-13 02:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by insane3639 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not much you can do once you kick someone out but take him back in. And maybe this time you can find him a job. Until he find a job put a code on your computer so he can't chat to nobody without your knowledge.
2006-07-13 02:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like when people break up i always think people should try atleast before someone breaks someones heart but i dont think you have much to try there is too much going on you gonna break up sooner or later for sure maybe you shouldnt wait to the point that it becomes a big fight. be carefuul you said he drinks you know what that means
2006-07-13 02:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by izaknyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself .. where the relationship going? can you imagine yourself with him 1 year, 5 years 10 years time.
2006-07-13 02:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by whiteeagle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always right to use your heart but when your heart gets tired, Its time to use your head... dump him now, its clear he's just using you..
2006-07-13 02:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and concern the mother
2006-07-13 02:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by [sabrina] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP him, all he wants is a girl who is way younger than him. HE IS A LOSER!!!
2006-07-13 02:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by bran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-07-13 05:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋