2006-07-12 19:17:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really love him and feel very comfortable around him then yes, you should. If you're not really sure that u luv him yet, then wait and get to know him more, otherwise it could cause problems w/ ur marriage.
2006-07-12 19:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming your boyfriend is in the same age range as you, you are both too young to get married.
For that matter, you are too young to even have a boyfriend at all. If you are under 25, you should be out having fun and sleeping with as many people as possible. If you don't, 3 or 4 years into your marriage, you'll be wondering what you missed, and you'll think about cheating before you're 30 and it might be too late.
Marriages where both parties are older than 25 have a much, much higher success rate. My advise, wait until you're in the 30's before you marry. You should have a well-established careers by then, you'll be better prepared to afford a family. Hopefully within a steady well balanced home environment. Children raised in solid households are much less likely to be social delinquents.
2006-07-12 20:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't worry about it.
Here's the thing about marriage:
Marriage is a thing for the women. We buy the ring ($20k-$50k), we buy the other ring, someone pays for the wedding ($20k-???), and it continues. In the end, you choose how you want it. And it's your special day. We guys, if we could, would make it as a cheap as possible and maybe try getting away without it, if we were inconsiderate.
If he looks like he has no money, I wouldn't worry about him about proposing. I wouldn't if I were broke.
The funniest thing about marriage is that your lives will continue without a noticable bump afterwards. Sure, the pockets might be drained and you're inundated with gifts from your wedding shower, but if you've been with him so long, it's not going to make much of a difference. In my perspective, marriages are an economic advantage - instead of 2 individual insurance plans, only one. Additionally, there are other perks to the whole thing.
So, if you aren't sure if you love him: NO!!! It's not a good choice to make.
If you love him with all your heart: Congrats, but wait for him to propose.
2006-07-12 20:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 YEars???
Aren't you allready married then?
It all depends on your desires. If you want him...get married, if not...dump him and get yourself a hero.
I don't know too many girls who would tolerate me dating them for 3 years without getting married. They are ready for marriage like 2 months in.
2006-07-12 19:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mere fact that you are seeding advice on that question from Yahoo answers tells me you're not ready. I would say not yet.
2006-07-12 19:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh 3 years and if u like him ur great
2006-07-12 19:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by insane3639 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it is all up to you we are not the ones to decide your future but if you want to and are ready well go for it but remember its your decision. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-12 19:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by La Loca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask a bunch of strangers then i would say no.
2006-07-12 19:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by reality check 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only u can answer this question, how would anyone else know?
2006-07-12 19:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not gettin' any younger sweetheart.
2006-07-12 19:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋