Is it worth it to stay with a man whom i am in a casual relationship with, who is seeing another woman, but whom i have been casually hooking up with for 8 months. He is moving away in one month and im wondering if it is worth to continue hooking up with him, he is the most amazing exciting man i have ever been with. I mean amazaing. We are friends, with benefits. Anyways should i continue to have fun and hook up with him till he moves and have fun for the summer, or stop to gain respect from him?
2006-07-12 18:58:31 · 17 answers · asked by karla_justice18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im young and we already know were just hooking up i also was seeing someone for some time while we did it. I just want to know if i may as well continue, the only thing holding me back is that hes seeing someone else--therfore potentially having sex with her as well as me. Other than that i just wanna have fun with him.
2006-07-12 19:07:05 · update #1
He wasnt seeing her when we started...were not actually having SEX, and its hard for me to stop hooking up with him because i get bored and lonely
2006-07-12 19:08:46 · update #2
I would live it up for the last month and then kiss him good bye. I don't see how stopping dating and being friends 1 month early will gain respect from him. Enjoy your summer together!
Peace!
2006-07-12 19:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gain respect have your fun but the respect will mean more in the end you two can have fun and not have to have sex that way you get both respect for him and you are able to have some fun.
2006-07-13 02:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
Well, not really. But a relationship built solely of sex is bound to be a weak one. If he's seeing another woman, it's probably going to be a stronger relationship than what you would have. It might be better to begin building a relationship with him that has his new relationship in mind.
2006-07-13 02:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he is seeing another woman and is having sex with you....Do you honestly think that he will respct you if you stop sleeping with him? Probably not. You should gain some self respect for yourself and kick him to the curb.
2006-07-13 02:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by traptfairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lost respect for you the first time you shared "benefits". You knew he was involved and you had sex with him anyhow? When you did that you told him your self esteem was shot and you really didn't care what he thought of you... you're just a fun booty call to him. let him go.
2006-07-13 02:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time to move on
2006-07-13 02:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Big Dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be rude but hell no unless you want to throw away your life
what sex befor marrige is worth is one of the worst lifes you can ask for so look sweetie no it really isn't
2006-07-13 02:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on you and how far you are willing to put up with the guy and a relationshp should not be based on sex alone but love so it is entirely up to you.
2006-07-13 02:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by sniperacute1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say your are friends.. there ends the issue.. sex is healthy if its in a relationship for life.. casual(relationship) sex not safe
2006-07-13 02:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by scorpiosaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmm,
it depends on whether you love this guy or just see him as a mate with some extras.
its really upto you.
good luck.
2006-07-13 02:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋