my question is after a girl hooks up with a guy do they feel obligated to tell them man he is "big" or it was the "Best" ever just to see them or date them again? I have been told my "tool" is good size by every girl I have been with, I just wanted to know are they just sayin that or do I really have something going?
I have been with over 20+
Im really serious about the question I'm not trying to build my self esteem up or anything...its an honest question, thank you and sorry if I have offended you by this question
2006-07-12 18:53:42 · 21 answers · asked by swingorstrikeout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not repeats when i say 20+ but then again some have never mentioned anything and some say it was whatever.. thank you all for your answers. I guess guys do kind of strive on this, never really thought of it before.
2006-07-12 18:58:52 · update #1
SO MANY GOOD ANSWERS! THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FIRST ONE TO SAY GO HUSKERS WINS THE BEST ANSWER
2006-07-12 19:03:04 · update #2
If I am asked I tell them they are terrific, because the asking shows they are insecure. Otherwise I generally give deserved compliments.
If you want to know if you are a good size or not, try to find out the sizes of popular female toys - if you know what I am saying. On line they must have dimensions, right? Then you will know if you are the size every woman is looking for.
Peace!
2006-07-12 19:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I'm sure thats what every guy thinks who has heard that. Some girls lie, some don't. Have the majority of your lady friends said it was big? Also, do you think its big... and if this is really an issue for you (if you haven't already), why don't you just measure it. ITs not always the size that matters... its whether or not you can use it the right way. If you want to be really good in bed, pay attention to what gets her off, most likely, you're going to get off anyway. Be safe.
2006-07-13 01:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are volunteering the information it's more likely to be true. If you are asking for the information or beating around the bush for a comment regarding the topic, then you might be experiencing some deception from them. Most women would try to give you a positive answer if they valued your feelings.
2006-07-13 02:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by mickyyyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women and men lie. Men respond to ego stroking. I have lost a few from being honest, so now I lie and sometimes it really helps a man gain confidence he really needed.Lying can build a man's self-esteem. Then I can slowly train him to do it right. Hey, you probably are wonderful.Have a great day.
2006-07-13 02:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... we all lie.. wouldn't matter if it was an inch long, we would tell you it was largest we have ever seen. You want to know why???? Because men usually make such a big deal over their size. We know it is a very touchy subject with you men.
2006-07-13 01:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obligated? no. most women (well ok i am talking my age so late 20's) are pretty upfront. if it's big and we enjoyed it we may tell you but if it's not i personally would just keep it to myself. i would only say it's the "best" if it really was. other than that i'd just say it was awesome, or i loved it...something along those lines.
2006-07-13 01:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we lie. A lot. Not always mind you, but you don't want to hurt the feelings of the man you're with, especially when it comes to that sort of thing.
2006-07-13 01:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by freyas_kin28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't think women are that shallow to say your tool is the "best" just so that they could see you again ......there are so many other facets to a person's personality than just sex !!!! so ...the answer is "No, women don't just say something for the heck of it . if it really was a good experience they would genuinely compliment you .
2006-07-13 01:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you expect them to say: you have a pencil tool? if a woman came out of the bathroom wearing the worst outfit you could imagine and asked how does this look? what would you say?
2006-07-13 01:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't any good...they would just laugh at you, or to spare your feelings they might lie if asked. However, if they are telling this to you voluntarily...it is most likely the truth.
2006-07-13 01:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋