2006-07-12 18:47:45 · 13 answers · asked by anil kumar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can apologize, buy her flowers, tell her how much you love her, etc but none of this works if you keep doing it. Get some books and pray that you" don't do it again "thats the best thing to do!!
2006-07-12 18:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kristi A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women get upset over the dumbest things and depending on what time of the month it is somthing you both used to laugh at may now insult them, my best advice? be nice, cook dinner, and snuggle at night, but if shes still hammering the pissed off/hurt button after a week on the same topic, buy a dirt bike, fliper the bird and go ridin =)
2006-07-12 18:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize and MEAN IT! don't let it happen again and if you slip, apologize some more but don't let a pattern of offense/appology/offense/appology, etc. come in to destroy whatever trust there is between you. the trust is all important and hurtful slips need to be eliminated or cut way back so good stuff happens more than bad stuff.
2006-07-12 20:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well fist start thinking about what you say before you say it. I know that can be really difficult but if you are starting to argue tell her you need a couple minutes to gather your thoughts, that way you can think about what to say. Also, if you do slip, say that your sorry and express how you feel by saying.....I feel (insert emotion here) when we (insert what happenes here)
2006-07-12 18:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by traptfairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you should really be thinking about what you say before you say it. Saying sorry will only work so long before it starts to lose the meaning.
2006-07-12 19:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. You sound like you are relly concerned, go express your feelings to her. Let her understand you know you made her feel bad and your deeply sorry. If she's as sweet as you im sure she will forgive you.
2006-07-12 18:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologise to her and mean it.. Take her flowers and a card saying how sorry you are and that you love her.. Buy her something or take her out for dinner.. Make it up to her by showing you reallycare for her..
2006-07-12 19:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take full responsibilty for your short comings and beg for forgiveness.
2006-07-12 18:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by 109stitches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, apologize, then LISTEN and think before you say something else dumb to your wife. She's got feelings too y'know.
2006-07-12 18:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry...talk about it and if that doesn't workI'm afraid you might have to kiss butt for a while. And hopefully learn from whatever it is you said
2006-07-12 18:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by sudbury girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋