ok, my cuzin is always telling me that i am his fav. cuz and stuff like that. but to me he is really annoying and he gets mad really easily and he laughs at the stupidest things. he says he wants to move in wit me and that would mean us goin to the same skool. and everytime i tell him to stop wut he's doin like if he's freakin out over notin, he gets all mad. and if i tell him i dont want him to move in wit me, he will get all mad. wut should i doo?!? ( im only 12)
2006-07-12 18:13:25 · 11 answers · asked by y s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
So your parents would allow him to move in with you...And his parents are alright with it to? Doesn't seem like something that's likely to happen. Set him straight. Say "I love you but I don't have to like you." If he gets mad just ignore it. When he figures out your right he'll talk to you like a normal human being.
2006-07-12 18:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for you! You are asking a mature question for a 12-year-old. There is something very wrong with this picture. Your cousin sounds unstable and should not be someone you have to deal with. Where are your parents? They absolutely should be standing up for you and telling "cuz" to move on. If they are not and you don't have the family support you would like, be strong, say "no" and have nothing to do with him. If he needs a family, a home, etc., see your school counselor and confide in them for help and direction. I wish you the best.
2006-07-13 01:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not let him move in, it would be a diaster, if he gets really mad all the time he has a temper, it could blow anytime, you guys will stay fav cuzins if he doesn't move in.
2006-07-13 01:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him get pissed and he will eventually get over it. Tell him that you dont think you two would be good roommates. Don't diss him at all, try telling him in a nice way w/o hurting his feelings. Or talk w/ his parents and have them tell your cousin. Good luck
2006-07-13 01:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very annoying. Just tell him to stop bothering you and he's NOT moving in with you. Then ask your mom to speak to him, to back you up. Good Luck!
2006-07-13 01:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are only 12. why bother this so much? the easiest way is to tell it to your parents and let them decide.
2006-07-13 01:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Meakness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it won't completely break his heart if you tell him to back off. No big deal. No my name is not Lauren Blea. Sorry!
2006-07-13 01:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lorenia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to ask your parents not you and let your parents know he makes u feel uneasy!
2006-07-13 01:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by mtnmomva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no way let him freek out so what.better than him staying there.
2006-07-13 01:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by lcayote 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens jus coz of age gap n getting embarresd.let him do wat he wants n u dnt get embarresed k.b confident tht wat he doing is rite no matter if thts d stupioedest thing.if u urself ignore him thn others wil have good chance 2 laugh on both of u.
2006-07-13 01:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋