Things look good when I start a relationship, but later on I start to think why am I involved in this relationship. Why will I waste time (not only face to face but also thinking about this person) when there is a lot of things I have to do? The other person might probably leave or hurt me and the time I put in the relationship will be in vain. This is when I started to fight my own feelings that make me like the other person? Any ideas on how to free myself a little. I beleive in hard work to achieve my goals, but it will be nice to have romantic experiences as well. I do not know how to handle both. Help please.
2006-07-12 18:02:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, first try to understand that if you are self-confident love would never interrupt in your studies.If your goals & achievements are a part of life then love & affection is the other part of life.You just can't ignore a part .It seems that you are much confident.Why do you worry then?And when you speak of the persons who leave you or hurt you, why do you think of them when they don't understand you?Remember that a person would be born on this world for u.He will come to you one day.Wait untill then,be patient& carry on.Even when he comes into your life speak to him about your dreams to achieve something.If he is your man he will understand you completely.And as for as your last question how to handle both it is very simple.Think only of your goals you have got to achieve when you are at study.And think only about love when you are with your mate.Life will be peaceful & happy .All the best.
2006-07-12 18:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Deepti.v 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you know what i believe everyone finds that someone but after my experince i realized there is more than one person out there for everyone. You can fall in love with whom ever you want, its possible to fall in love with anyone. Sometimes you gotta put yourself out there although you may get hurt its the risk you take that makes you fall so far for someone. Thats how you find out if its ment or not. Its okay everyone has a fear of getting hurt because it can happen but when something bad happens theres always a happy ending , good luck and just enjoy everything and you will find that special love in who ever you meet
2006-07-13 01:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Christine R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll fall in love, just be patient, focus on making yourself the best person you can be for yourself and you'll know when the right one comes around.
don't think about the "what if's" of a relationship. enjoy it for what it is and if something dosen't work out take whatever positive out of the situation you can, leave the negative behind and carry on with your life.
2006-07-13 01:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by vail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have been hurt before or have herd of people getting hurt doesn't mean it is always going to happen try not looking for someone that is going to last forever and look for someone that understands you and that makes you laugh. When you think about how long they are going to last then you make the time shorter then it might have lasted, and think when you think about how they are going to hurt you you break up with them and then you hurt them like you thought they where going to hurt you.
Making you love someone isn't fair to them.
2006-07-13 01:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hay you will find the right guy dont hurt yourself love is a strange thing sometimes it brings joy and some times pain but free yourself dont hold back or youll never learn dont be afraid trust yourself
2006-07-13 01:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by civic1862000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See a counselor. You may need help unraveling your inward uneasiness/fears to discover the reasons every relationship finds its way into this downward spiral.
2006-07-13 01:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, love is over rated!
2006-07-13 01:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by terrbeary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about things like love. trust me you will know when the right one comes.
2006-07-13 01:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by nicole24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is patience, love is kind, it does not boast. Never, never, never, awaking love. Let love awaking you.
Source
Bible
2006-07-13 01:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will happen if you and your family allow it, to
2006-07-13 01:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋