I am a mother of 3 and seems I just can't find any good guys locally.
2006-07-12 18:02:00 · 11 answers · asked by Dreamy J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'Cause good guys are hard to come by...everything worth having is hard to find and even harder to keep. I've been wishing for years that I could find a good woman that appreciated having a good man - mother or not.
Concentrate on those that depend upon you and hopefully soon it will be your turn to be happy...
Good Luck!!!
2006-07-12 18:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several reasons for this one. First of all, single moms usually have a lower self esteem then single women do. So, they feel that they should settle for whatever comes along. Second, 3 kids is alot of baggage and it takes a very special man to walk into something like that. Your best bet, at the risk of sounding corny, try going to church, you will be more likely to find a decent patient man there.
2006-07-13 01:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Youi're looking in the wrong city, and state, and you're probably living with someone in your family. Most men who are willing to date single mothers and possible adopt her child, feel that the single mother should put her child first, not her family. I'm a single, so far never married, virgin, whose a good guy, and I have wanted to have sex and become a father, since I was 20. Would care to come find me? Maybe even move to where I am?
2006-07-13 01:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2006-07-13 01:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by michelle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to give it some time. I have two little girls and it is hard finding a girl that is willing to see me and accept that I already have a family. That is a hard one for some people to deal with. Where are you from?
2006-07-13 01:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by deputy0216 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well for starters . thinking like thats doesnt help. guys dont like it when girls throw pitty parties. only guys that will pay any attention to a girl like that doesnt want to date you, just **** you . Dont think that you have to give it up either. So what if you got 3 . I got 4 and i still can get a good man. I deserve one. he must have a house, car , and job. If you expect to be treated good you will be.
2006-07-13 01:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys think about hooking up with girls for sex first then maybe a relationship. cos you have kids, guys will see that you might be looking for a relationship straight off the bat. sad but true.
2006-07-13 01:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess its not that hard, i am a single mom too. what u have to do is just wait for the right one to come alongh. dnt look for him, he'll come.
2006-07-13 01:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by prettysinglemom26 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there will be a guy 4 u
2006-07-13 01:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by vivianaH 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looking in the wrong places and not too many people want kids!
2006-07-13 01:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋