With everyone (women and men alike) going so far out of their way to ditch reality when they hit Sunset (or wherever you go clubbin') how can any one of us be sure that when we see someone we're attracted to that he/she's being themselves???
Is there a better place to be social and meet new people???
2006-07-12 17:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think most people go clubbin' to escape reality! A better place to meet...join a specialty club that involves something you're passionate about.
2006-07-12 18:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Planet Progress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I suppose it's better than the Internet... I know a lot of people who go clubbing themselves and say they would never date anyone they met in a club. Which is silly because if worthwhile people do not go to clubs, what the h*ll are they doing there?
If you meet someone in a club who you like, don't just go home with them. I think it's OK to exchange numbers and agree to go out some other night. And if they don't call or don't seem interested, obviously they were just looking for a pickup so there's your answer. It may take longer to get to know them, but if you find someone you like, give them a chance. You never know.
2006-07-12 18:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say no. I went to some clubs back when I was in college and never saw anyone remotely interesting to me - though maybe it's just that I prefer -not- to date the alcohol guzzling, possibly pill popping party type you generally find in places like that. Gimmie eye contact across a library or coffee shop any day.
2006-07-14 04:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can meet a mate in a club, because people are (wearing masks) they aren't being themselves. The best way I feel is to meet someone were you feel comfortable, If you like going to the park, library, museum,out to dinner. If you aren't comfortable, you won't talk to the person with confidence. Be yourself, smile and be confident in your daily life and you will meet your soul mate.
2006-07-12 18:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby please dont go to the club and find no one. thats just a temparary thing. everyone is having fun. but reality is not till the next day. i met a dj from the club and he turned out to be my worst nightmare. at the time he was very nice outgoing. looked very very educated. held on a very good conversation. this was the worst guy i ever met. he fooled me , my family, my friends. he looked one way and turned out to be very dishonest and self centered. i did wait a week before i invited him over. that still didnt help. he was a very emotionally unavailable person.
2006-07-12 18:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am convinced you can find a good mate in the bar/club scene. i met my girlfriend at the bar.
just think of it this way, someone going out has similar intrest as you by having fun. and when you feel that spark, you'll know the one, you may find you have more in common than you think...
2006-07-12 18:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by vail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I liked that answer you gave about the one night stand. Im a sucker for good guys I guess
2006-07-13 15:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Put 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! You're cool! you seem to be a great guy! And yeah, I think you can find "the one" ANYWHERE. You just have to have faith...
2006-07-13 15:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by jcarriere007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you can but sometimes it gets really hard to find the right one ok but find out if they have hiv or somethingelse before you **** them ok!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-12 18:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by Wynekia S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hot as you are you should be able to walk out
ya front door and get a girl....
2006-07-13 16:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋