Will you able to accept it? Will you be feel worry right now even though they are still around?
How are you going to cope with the pain of having such loss.
2006-07-12 17:53:29 · 11 answers · asked by Simple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have just the answer for you. it hurts real bad. my dad died in my arms on 9-28-05. i was the last person he saw and spoke to. he said "im ok". but he wasnt. the dr at the hospital couldnt save him. i still cry over it but not as much as i did. i was a huge daddys girl. i have found a lot of comfort in my mom. my pets are a great comfort also. its like they know im hurting and they let me hold them and cry. i even talk to them. it seems silly but it really helps.
2006-07-12 18:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by mom 3 times 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay let me give you some advice right now: never, ever live your life in regret of something you did not say. Tell your loved ones you love them. I am aware that it is really awkward at first. Especially to tell your friends that you love. But saying it now will prevent you a lot of heart-ache later on. Second: don't think about what you are going to do when they are gone. Live right now in this moment with them. You never have another moment like this one with them. Laugh, cry, horse around. Live!
Lastly: the only way to cope with that pain is day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute, moment by moment. I hate it when people call it a season of grieving. There is no season to it. It is a lifetime of moments that they are not there for. A lifetime of pain. It gets better. The pain dulls and you hardly notice it, but it is always there. Trust me. You find your own way of expressing it and releasing it, but it never really goes away. You just live day to day, never knowing if this day will remind you of them. At least that's the way I cope!
2006-07-12 18:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i try not to but my mind drifts and i think about everything and i do think of that and what it would be like but u want a real ful answer no when the time comes i don't know how ill go throw it its sad to think that someone s odearly loved in your live will be gone and forever...but don't worry about it know and don't think abou tit know cause u can't be sad while they r still here and one day u will have to face it but jus twait for the day and have fun now cause u don't know how long u will have and u can't prepare for it no matter if u think u know how u will fell u don'ttil it comes and it will hurt but don't waste time getting ready just enjoy for now
2006-07-12 17:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by soccer_chick4333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have been thinking alot of this stuff.
I will not be able to accept cos we just found each other and had 2 beautiful bbs. I will feel most sad if he can't be there for our bbs future cos they will always always remind me of him.
It will take many many years to get over or never.
2006-07-16 20:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by 7kiki6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it comes across my mind. It will be hard to cope up with it but i will just remind myself that if that happens they will be with the Lord and they are happy there. I shouldn't be selfish to want to keep them here when they're already happy in God's presence.
2006-07-12 18:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I will accept it gradually. I dun even think of it at the moment coz it make me more worry. I have not think until that stage yet.
2006-07-12 18:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face reality and facts. its something we dont want and neither can we control?
treasure the time that we have now and never regret when the day comes.
fate , destiny whatever live and be happy and dont worry about those that we cant control.
2006-07-12 18:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have and both of my parents are now gone you just take one day at a time and remember all the goods times
2006-07-12 18:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by mtnmomva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think about it all the time but the thing is if you play your cards right youll get to see them again some day.and just think they wont have to suffer anymore.
2006-07-12 17:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by fairy princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a format of life was ~ Born, Old, Sick & Die.... thats life...nothing can changed. even one live till 120 years old... he or she will still have to disappear....
2006-07-12 18:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋