My ex and i were each other first loves. we were 2gether for 6 yrs almost. She was cheating on me with a guy from her job! She said that i would always be her baby, but after we broke up, she was very nasty to me. She threw me out of our house with little money, i would try to call her at work and she would hang up in my face, she would tell me that his sex was better, even though i made her have orgasims when we made love. But i know he is abusive 2 her she moved him in after 2 weeks of dating him, he is more controlling and jealous than i was. When she sees me, she'll hide from me, or ignore me. I really loved her, and she is the one who hurt me, the one who cheated on me, its been 10 months since her and i broke up, and i cant get her off my mind. She would kiss me everyday she went to work, and kissed me when she came home, and the day i found out she was cheating on me with him, she denied it. she says that their relationship is grea, and she wont speak to me, why do she hate?
2006-07-12 17:06:26 · 7 answers · asked by beerdrinker3423 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have since moved away from her, but her sister and my sister still talks. She would say things to her sister because she knew somehow i would find out. i waited on her hand and foot. she bought me a new truck,and 2 months before we broke up she and i traveled over the road, and everyday she would tell me that she loved me. Its hard getting over her, because i thought she was a good girl, only to find out she was a slut.
2006-07-12 17:21:25 · update #1
But the truth is, is that i dont want a girl like her back, i need closure, she didnt even want to talk to me about it. thats my problem with moving on, i need answers, and she wont give them to me. But when i'm in town, and she sees me, her face lights up when she sees me, i just dont want to fix these, i just want to know why.
2006-07-12 17:25:37 · update #2
leave her alone she doesn't want you and you controlling ways and everything that come alone with you
2006-07-12 17:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got a similair cicumstance. the way u talk about her i can tell u love her and i feel the same way about a girl but alot like u she always made it obvious she didnt feel the same. i dont really have any advice but thought id let u know that ur not the only dealing with **** like that. i would say do what u can to let go.
2006-07-13 00:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't hate u....she's waiting for u 2 rescue her! sounds like she made a mistake by cheating,and there were problems u 2 were having and she felt neglected! now she went and cheated and has to act like she won! and she knows she didn't! she wants u to admit ur relationship prior had problems,and u werent there like she needed u to be,but that u love her etc. and i guarntee she'll be back!!! im going thru the same thing,altho i didnt cheat,i left him....and then meet some1!
2006-07-13 00:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by dawn ella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its tough but you need to let go and move on, and be strong enough to say no if she comes running back when things dont work out with her current BF.
This lady is trash im sorry to say, you dont need rubbish like that cluttering up your life.
2006-07-13 00:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by stefjeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if she wants a man like that to do that to her let her go. im sure you are better than that. if its meant to be she will be back with you. dont pressure her into being with you. she will be back if not good luck with ur next relationship maybe u can find someone to love you and not cheat.
2006-07-13 00:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she hates you, she just doesn't want to be with you anymore. She is being mean in hopes that you will leave her alone. Sorry to say, but it's time you move on and let her live her life.
2006-07-13 00:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's covering up her feelings for u.....sounds like she more than likely really liked u.....and now that its over, she's angry, and wants u to hurt as bad as she does......just move on......don't talk to her anymore.......Good luck!!
2006-07-13 00:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋