I'm trying to ask a girl out, but I'm afraid that she'll say no.. what should I do?

Answer 1

dont be afraid..if you keep thinking about it and wondering about it and if you NEVER ask her you would never know..think about this..ask yourself..what would bother/hurt you the most?? you not knowing about her answer to you...or getting turned down? or never to have asked her?? i would have rathered to asked her and get turned down..what do you have to loose?? she is the one missing out if she says no..so if she does..hoping she DOESNT..just say oh well its her lost. right!? so go ahead..get bucked up about it..get dressed..wear something nice..smell good..have fresh minty breath..and just say..hey would you mind being friends? maybe we could go out sometime..to a movie or something..its not as hard as you think..dont sweat about it..its simple. maybe shes interested in you too and maybe shes hoping you come talk to her..but you will never know until you make that move so go ahead and do it! i will be right here rooting you on..and if she says no i'll make sure she regrets it..lol..good luck!

Answer 2

Here's how this will play out if you don't ask. Soon, she'll hook up with a guy who WASN'T afraid to ask her out. You'll see her with him, and you'll think to yourself, "Why is she with him? He's such a dork/loser/idiot/geek. I'm better than him." But he's the one who took the chance. He's the one who put his ego on the line, and it paid off. It COULD have been you, but you don't know, because you were afraid to roll the dice. Then, you beat yourself up, and ask yourself "Why? Why didn't I try? What was I so afraid of?" She's just a person. She has feelings just like you. If you are sincere with her, she will probably be the same way with you, even if the answer you get isn't what you wanted. I'm not some old fart that thinks he knows everything, but I am old enough to know that EVERY regret I have in my 33 years on this earth centers around not taking a chance. The thing about dating is, you have to go through a lot of the wrong ones before you find the right one. That will never change. Get past it now, and get in the game. It's a tough game, but at some point, you'll be so glad you did.

Answer 3

If you go through life avoiding any chance of rejection where will you end up?.

Unfortunately its a fact of life that not every woman you find attractive is going to find you attractive as well, best thing you can do is take rejection like it means nothing to you, smile, be polite, and move on to the next girl....

Expect to be rejected about 8 out of 10 times until your confidence improves...

Answer 4

Just do it, if you don't want to put up with getting rejrcted practise on other girls for a 1 date then you'll be confident. I have same prob and its easier said then done, im wit you brudda!
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Oh, and you may get embarrest if your rejected. When I ever look back on something embarrison I change what happened abit and tell my mates so its funny. e.g. I danced crappy at a school dance, so I said I did it to be funny and cuz everyone knowz I'm the class clown.

Answer 5

when asking anyone out the asker is always afraid . but the ? 2 ask yourself is what do you have to lose..................? nothing but you can gain a great girl. even if she does say no that's OK BC at least now you won't always wonder what if . so ask away if you get a no there are always other fish in the sea.

Answer 6

Well, you should just go for it she might like you but she is scared to ask you out, and if she says yes that's good for you, but if she says no then there are other fish in the sea.

Answer 7

You will never know until you ask, and if she says now there is plenty of woman out there. I have always found when you are not looking someone will pop in that will be best for you.

Answer 8

Go ahead and do it. It's better to ask and get rejected than to wonder "what if?". As the saying goes: "Of all said words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these: It might have been!"

Answer 9

let me tell you sweetheart
there is no easy way in asking a female out you are either going to get a yes or no answer.
if you really really like her you will just do it.....just walk up to her and say hi how are you doing...and basically spark up a conversation....when you are done talking just ask her if she would like to go out with you sometime...maybe to a dinner and a movie.if she says yes dont forget to get her number..never give yours first cause we always say we will call and most never does........good luck

Answer 10

TOTALLY ask her anyway! Girls are just as nervous and maybe she likes you too! If she says no, get some ice cream and watch a movie marathon. Good luck!