his family is known to me. i like his kids. but don.t want to distrub his marriage .i like secretr relation with him
2006-07-12 16:43:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a joke, right?
2006-07-12 16:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, he got a wife and kids and u even know them!!!!
I don't know what r u thinking!!!!!!!
What u r doing is totaly wrong
First, he is a lot older than u and he got a life and a family that u wanna distroy
Just think how much harm would u do to his wife and especially to those kids if they descover that u have a "secret" relationship with this man
I bet u wouldn't like it if ur dad cheated on ur mother with a younger girl or if u were married and with kids and one day ur husband says: "honey, I have a secret relationship with someone else and I love her, I want a divorce"
Just stop for a second and think how much harm and how many lives would u detroy just because of a whim
2006-07-12 16:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 10:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to disrupt his family then you need to leave him alone. These secrets always end up getting found out. If he truely cares for you, then put the relationship on hold until he gets a divorce or whatever. How would you feel if he were your husband?
2006-07-12 16:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. Let him know you are attracted to him. If he bites, or just nibbles a bit (lol), then go from there. Dont worry about destroying his marriage. Marriage is an outdated institution these days and his marriage wont last anyway statistically.
2006-07-12 16:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Can't you find a single guy? Or do you want to run the risk of ruining his family? If you like him and his kids, then leave him alone.
2006-07-12 16:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by spirited 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Why do you want to put hardship and hurt on his children and wife. Go find your own man.Its very rare for them to leave their spouse and children.Or the life they have built.Its usally just the sex they want. Ive been in both boats. Your worth it to find your own because they will cheat on you,
2006-07-12 16:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by bluemoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone with his family, or you will regret it later because you will be "the other women" and will only see him when wants an extra on the side and only on his terms.
2006-07-12 16:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you want a relationship with a married man listen if he is doing this to his wife you dont think he could /would do it to you ? come mon hun you know its true there are so many men out there dont limit youreself to the TAKEN ones
2006-07-12 16:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Shorty 2 Short :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! RUN AS FAR AND AS FAST AS YOU CAN!
This is not a road you want to travel down. It may seem romantic now, but you will only hurt yourself, him and his family. Do you really want that?
2006-07-12 16:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by lockesmith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need someone your age, someday you're gonna be old and married. it would be ironically funny if the same thing happened to you. if you have any sense of decency stay away from him
2006-07-12 16:48:55 · answer #11 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋