IF you loved him so much.........
2006-07-12 16:33:35 · 25 answers · asked by vanessa j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really have a choice because my sister lives with me. Still pissed that she cheated on me with our cousin.
2006-07-12 16:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really believe once a cheater always a cheater. It took me a few times to learn this, but it's always turned out the same. Why begin a relationship again where there is broken trust? Especially when chances are it'll never be able to be regained. There is definitely someone out there who will want you and do anything for you. My advice: Don't settle for less and let history repeat itself. Your worth too much.
2006-07-12 16:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by beyondthesound 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me frame my response by observing first that I am not as faithful to religious principles as I should like to be, and that is no one's fault but my own. Still one of those principles is forgiveness, and I long ago concluded that it must be among the Lord's trump suits for he practices it so frequently on poor sinners like myself, forgiving me of my many shortcomings.
That example set, I try to emulate it when I am in a position to do so, and hope others may be inclined to extend me the same courtesy when I offend their spirit in some way.
However, I was struck by the way you phrased your question, and will encourage you to think over your capacity to forgive before you proceed.
Does one lie a liar make? One theft a lifetime thief? One infidelity a lifelong cheater?
I may go along with the notion that one murder a murderer makes, as the consequence of that act is irreversible, but I will acknowledge that many will differ with me on that point.
The Lord has a seemingly infinite capacity to forgive, and while I may aspire to do better than I do, that heavenly standard is beyond my reach.
What you have to ask yourself I think is, in your mind will he always be a cheater? If so I would suggest that taking him back will lead to no good end, as your doubts and recriminations will evidence themselves in the long run in your relationship, and forever divide you. If, on the other hand, he has the courage to reform, and you have the courage to forgive and to trust . . . if you not only loved him so much in the past, but have the capacity to do so now, then yes, try again. Forgiveness is but one of the Lord's virtues that we should all try to emulate more freely. Another is faith, and having the faith to try is an admirable thing.
2006-07-12 16:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by anonymourati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so easy to say once a cheater always a cheater but what happens when there is true love involved it becomes much harder to say its over true love is so hard to come by if its a soul mate you have to find a way to forgive I would like to think that I would give her a 2nd chance but who truly knows until it happens to you.........Good question.........
2006-07-12 16:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by getatjayr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. In my opinion once a cheater always a cheater. Trust is so important in a relationship. How can you trust another who has cheated on you before?
2006-07-12 16:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way once a cheater always a cheater
2006-07-12 16:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater
2006-07-12 16:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really your decision... i think a person can cheat once and if he really regrets his actions... but i do not think i could trust him anymore.. and a relationship is no good if you do not have trust....so if you really love him that much to give him another chance, then it is your decision....what does he even have to say for his self about this....talk it over with him before you go back to him, and if he is not sorry and does not ever want to cheat again. i would not even think of going back to him....
2006-07-12 16:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on what have he done in the passed and have he changed his ways. but if that was oyur first love then you gone allways have love for him no matter what. but if it's true love and he ****** up in the passed that because he really didn't know what he had at the time. and he though he can play you with out you finding out. good luck if you need anything just e-mail me at sexycramalro@yahoo.com
2006-07-12 16:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 07:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, ...always a cheater. I like guys that are faithful, only one person that is it, if he cheats, Bye, Bye Charlie.
2006-07-12 16:37:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋