my girl got off her period days be4 we had sex, she hasnt got her period yet and we used condoms shelotsstress

Question

she has been under lots of stress lately and the condom didn't rip and I pulled out before I went

Answer 1

Stress can cause a woman to delay her period.

Answer 2

in response to some of the other responses:

1. You don't have to marry her just because she is pregnant. That is the worst reason to marry someone especially if you are young and don't want to get married to her. You will just end up getting divorced later with a lot of heartache.

2. If she is pregnant and you both agree on an abortion, get it EARLY. The earlier it is done, the lower the risk for complications. Be a gentleman and pay for the abortion, also be with her before and after. Also, getting an abortion will not always emotionally scar the girl. If she really wants the baby but is pressured to get an abortion, then yes she will be traumatized and sad later. But, if she absolutely, definitely does not want the baby, she will probably just feel relief.

3. If she is pregnant and wants to keep the baby, sorry but she will probably hit you up for child support. That is the risk you took by having sex with her.

4. If she turns not to be pregnant (get an EPT test asap to find out!) consider using a better form of birth control than condoms.

Answer 3

This is my answer to a girl who have the same problem as your girlfriend:

First you should be honest with your friend. Tell him the truth. That your period has not come.

You can purchase pregnacy test kits at pharmacies. Do a DIY urine test. Do it with the support of your friend.

If you are pregnant,

Understand that there is another life in you.

Discuss about alternatives. Discuss about getting parental consent into marriage. Most parents of both sides usually agree in this kind of cases. It is the asking part is most difficult. So confide your problem to the one (either parent from both sides) who is more forgiving first.

Getting a ROM is cheap.

Abortion is the nightmare to solve this kind of problem. It tramatise a mother and a responsible father the whole of their lives. Initially it seems to be the easiest way out, but no you have to bear it thoughout your life.

Think about informing a parent first and always seek religious help. Then things will work out. It is not easy in the beginning but it may not be that difficult either.

Answer 4

Stress can delay a female's period or she can even skip a period cause of stress. Yet, all it takes is pre- come for a female to get pregnant, and condoms can have a pin hole in which you might not see. They are not 100% effective. Have her get tested or get her a EPT from the store.

Answer 5

It is far to early to panic. I've had girlfriends who missed their periods. I've known women to have more than 1 period/month. There is evidence that sometimes women living in close proximity synchronize their periods and that could lead to her delay. She may have other reasons for her stress, although the suggestion that her stress may have delayed her period is another explanation. Condoms rarely fail, although they can fall off, but would know that.

Answer 6

if you're committed to be responsible for the consequences of her pregnancy, she won't feel the stress. unless she doesn't want it too. but if i look at the way you did it - wearing condom and pulling out before you came - you are just after the sex and not the responsibility.

Answer 7

So whats the problem?
marry her.

whether she is pregnant or not, you two should already be planning to get married soon.

either you dont love her and just using her, one day you will leave her, with a lot of hearthache and pain.

if you truly love her, then marry her, be a man, and not a sissy.

you should be preparing for your future family.

sex is fun but only for married couples, its sacred.

so its time to think deeper, not whining if your girlfriend is pregnant or not.

see your girlfriend straight in the eyes, then ask yourself honestly, do you really love her, or are you just using her for sex?

whatever is your choice my friend, it will surely make a big difference someday from this point onwards.

either you will regret it or not, its up to you.

if you truly love her, go for it. and let the whole world know how special your girlfriend is, that you love her not just because of sex, but you want to spend your entire life with her.

its your choice...

Answer 8

that's a threat, yet not likely. a woman's era is her body laying off the liner of her uterus because the egg released for that month did not get fertilized in time. this is lengthy gone now. hence, that is frequently the most secure time to have sex in the course of the month. Sperm can loiter round alive in there for countless days after sex, yet she nevertheless ought to no longer ovulate (launch the subsequent egg) again quickly sufficient to get pregnant, considering her era in simple terms ended. again, this is continuously a threat, yet this became surely the worst time of the month if she were attempting to get pregnant on purpose.

Answer 9

she should probably take a home preg. test or wait a few more days and well if u used a condom and pulled out then she mite just be worryin to much and holdin her period back even more. this isnt very unusual i dont think.

Answer 10

If she is pregnant...do your very best to be there for her. She could use your support and dont leave her!! Stick with her because its a responsibility that u both need to tend for...and be more careful next time!!