A girl I work with that I liked started to like me I think......Yesterday morning she came up to me and told me she wanted my sweater I was wearing....I joked with her for a while and said she would probably get it. At the end of the day I was at the bus stop waiting for the bus and she drove by and turned around and gave me a ride home. I thought I was feeling vibes as far as she liking me so we talked on the way home and then asked if she wanted to do something Sat. She agreed, I gave her the sweater and she wore it today. We talked this morning a bit and then at the end of the day she asked if I wanted a ride home....I explained to her I wouldn't be done for another 30min. She said she would wait. On the way home she told me she would give me a ride to work Fri..her day off but I declined.however after getting to my house, I asked if I could kiss her and she said no..she still wants me to call her tonight and go out Sat. Does she like me as a friend or whats going on???
2006-07-12 16:03:22 · 13 answers · asked by fartvision 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just take it slow and see where the evening leads you two. In this situation the best thing is to see where the cards lie, you can ask her point blank or you can try little things to make it easier to detect whether she is feeling you or not. Good luck.
2006-07-12 16:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch this carefully, because it could mean that she likes you and refusing the kiss shows that she's a lady and not wanting to rush into sexual things yet----or it could mean that someone else at work likes you, she knows it, and she's trying to make you look "taken" in order to keep someone else away. The vibes you felt could be real, either way. Just go slowly and see how it goes between you. Be very observant at the way she treats you and if she tries to get between you and any other woman at work. Sometimes it only means she's jealous of the other woman, not that she wants you for herself.
2006-07-12 16:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She definitely likes you just that she needs more time to get to know you.
You dont have to appologise but if you really want to know if theres anything between the 2 of you, you should wait at least for a while. You might scare her if you bring this up too soon... go on more dates and see what happens.
Good Luck
2006-07-12 16:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read into it. She probably said no about the kiss because she wants to get to know you better. But she is making an effort to see you. There might be something there.
2006-07-12 16:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mes. up when you said can i kiss you you just don't do that man just when she drop you off home be for getting out just say take you then look at her in then eyes and Waite for 10sec. or 5 if not a kiss or i had a good time with you just say see you at work later bye
2006-07-12 16:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by brandon w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could just be playing with you. is she a genuinly nice girl? how much do you know about her? i would keep cool and see if she heats up the contact a bit. at the moment she is in control and she could be loving it that way. turn the cards on her and act 'cool.' if she is really interested in you then she will let you know somehow. take back the control and put the ball in her court.
good luck
2006-07-12 16:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes you, but kissing that soon, is probably to fast for her and scares her. You'll know for sure saturday, because if she doesn't kiss you then, then she just is playing the field and wants to be friends.
2006-07-12 16:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by bratttykat_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you experience like you want to make an apology, please swallow your delight...that's common techniques to warmth as a lot as a woman you damage, inspite of in case you in simple terms damage her a touch. Definetly ask what's on your techniques, communique is so very key. solid success!
2016-10-14 10:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. She probably just wants to take things slow and get to know you before she jumps into romantic things.
2006-07-12 16:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the movie Shrek? When he says "Ogars are like onions, they have many layers." It sounds like she wants to get to know you. Go out and have fun and take cues from her about what layer she's on with you.
2006-07-12 16:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Adam B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋