2006-07-12 15:52:26 · 15 answers · asked by Mr.X 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be your self.
2006-07-12 15:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Crushed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word, confidence. Be yourself, be unique, and unafraid to show it. Respect yourself, and dress well. Don't be afraid to speak your mind. Don't slouch. Stand tall and proud. Look and feel successful.
Women are instinctually attracted to strong, alpha-type males who take charge. (Unfortunately, some "alpha" males take this too far, as in abuse). Some women go for superior brains, others go for superior bodies. With discipline, you can have both a great brain and a great body.
When you meet a woman who you really feel attracted to, don't play the romance card quickly. Get to know her, friend-wise. You may find that you really don't have much in common, but hey, since you didn't go in with too many expectations, you lost nothing.
Sooner or later, following this advice, you will end up gaining everything, like I did when I took my own advice. Before I met her, I had a on-again, off-again girlfriend who didn't "click" with me. But we had gone into the relationship with the expectation of a relationship, and there wasn't a friendship underneath. It was a nightmare.
When I was winding down the relationship with my ex, I had happened to talk with this really nice girl who I thought was way out of my league about relationships & dating. It turned out she was really not confident about herself (most women are far more self-concious than us guys) and she didn't bother to try for a relationship because the guys she knew were just after one thing, if you know what I mean.
So... I woke up quickly, took action, and we became friends. I didn't pressure a relationship on her. But one day, it just happened.
We've been married 7 years now.
2006-07-12 16:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i dont know who u r but u should be urself and there is girl out there who probably likes u and ur probably to blinded to c it because u like another girl but anyways just be urself it helps cuz u never really have to plan an act (or even remember it)
2006-07-12 15:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by tAkiiN liFe aSz iT cOmEs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't get a girl to like you be your self and the perfect some one will cause if you are being some one your not then you have to act that way for the rest of your relatioship
2006-07-12 15:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by nicks girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta be yourself. u might be looking for a straight answer but ur not goin to get 1 cause every girl is different
2006-07-12 15:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Judah[[S.P.]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start friendly interesting conversations,wear good smelling cologne keep nice clothes on your back and show interest. have confidence in yourself act like you dont need them and trust me girls will come rolling. my brother does it and he has those chicks calling the house everyday and ps. sweet talk too! good luck
2006-07-12 15:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most importantly be yourself...although being charming and acting like a gentlemen don't do any damage...girls love guys who treat them like princesses and truly care for them
2006-07-12 15:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by playing it cool... even tho u want her so badly.. juz act cool.. but not cocky...be moderate.. dress up nicely... talk about anything but sex (show some knowledge).. pay everything on the first date.. play it simple.. but most importantly be urself.
2006-07-12 16:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by eiraz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the things that are good about yourself show them to the girls they will love you
2006-07-12 15:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find talent makes a guy attractive. find what ur good at and let people see that and girls will appreciate it.
2006-07-12 15:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by poppettes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself dont try to act like a someone else that u r not.
2006-07-12 16:01:25 · answer #11 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋