I need help deciding what to do!!!!?

Question

Heres the story, for the sake of making it less confusing, i will say my name Ben, instead of I.
There are 4 people: Lindsey, Ben (me), Olivia, and Beau!
Olivia and Beau are in "love"! Olivia acts like she cant stop thinking about beau! her myspace has beau's pictures and name all over it!
Lindsey likes Ben, a lot! Ben hasnt decided if he likes Lindsey! but he does like Olivia! So Lindsey likes Ben, who likes Olivia, who is in love with Beau, which Beau and Olivia are going out!
What should Ben do????

Answer 1

back down and just be yourself, if you dont like lindsey than dont go there, if you like olivia then just wait and see if her and her Beau break up, dont interfere

Answer 2

looks like ben is in the middle of a love triangle! well face it, ben will never have olivia because her and beau are too much in love so he should just stick to what he's got. if ben doesnt know if he likes lindsey yet, then he should decide that soon because if he does he should get her as fast as he can before she gets snatched up by another man like olivia was. good luck ben...

Answer 3

Ben is taller than Olivia, Lindsey lives in the green house, and Beau does not like hamsters.

Answer 4

Wow..... it's been a long time since I've had to think this way, so give me a sec.....

OK, "Ben", here's what ya do: hire a hooker for Beau, take pictures, and "break the news" to Olivia that Beau is cheating on her. THEN you get to be the knight in shining armor who saved her from the evil Beau, give her a shoulder to cry on, Bob's your uncle, Fanny's your aunt, you get Olivia. Of course, your relationship will be based on a lie, but that's OK 'cause you got the girl.

OR.... you could give Lindsey a chance and let Olivia be happy with Beau.

Answer 5

Go for this Lindsey girl, give her a chance you never know you might come to really like her. This Oliva sounds like she is mental over Beau so you've no chance there, sorry mate. Besides if you blew off Lindsey and she found out you like Oliva she'd get upset and Oliva will think you're just weird, and Beau if he likes her half as much as she does him wont be very happy with you! Give Lindsey a shot.

Answer 6

First of all find out if you have feelings for Lindsey. If you do then you're obviously not truly in love with Olivia so try to move on. You don't have to move on Lindsey immediately. Give yourself a little time to heal. Then maybe try to get to know Lindsey better.

If you find you don't have feelings for Lindsey then find out if you truly love Olivia.(by truly love, I mean you would want to spend the rest of your life with her) If you do truly love Olivia then go and tell her how you feel.
If you find that you don't love Olivia then try to get over Olivia because having feelings for her when you know that it is just a crush and she is in love with someone else can really be painful in the long run.

Hope this helps.
Good luck.

Answer 7

Ben needs to find someone else to like or either give lindsey a chance. Ben also needs to get a less confusing life that just made my head hurt! lol

Answer 8

First if you do love Olivia then you need to tell her, but be prepared if she loves Beau she may tell you to take a hike. Lindsay obviously likes you maybe you should sort out all of your feelings.
Do what you feel is best but if you persue Olivia you may get your heart broken

Answer 9

wow... this is just like TV! Um you should probally tell Olivia how you feel. And tell Lindsey how you do/dont feel also. You need to figure out what you want to do before you hurt someones feelings.

Answer 10

Ben needs to find a new woman! What's the point of Ben being all goo goo ga ga over someone who has no interest in him? Tell Ben to find someone who can appreciate and love BEN...the worst mistake people make is thinking they can change someone's mind! Ain't happenin!

Ben...find a new woman!