We are young newlyweds and I have never lied to him once in our 2 years of relationship. We have/had great trust. I love him very much and do a lot for him and he gives that love and appreciation back to me. The things is, I know this may sound stupid and childish but it is what it is.
He has a hateful passion towards myspace. he really doesnt like it, anyhow I used to use it all the time and then we got into an arguement about it and i flat out told him I would never use it or go on it again and i PROMISED him. well that was stupid of me because first, that was a dumb thing for him to tell me not to do and second i knew i wouldnt be able to keep this promise, anyhow, i "secretly" have been going on it for a few months now and he just found out
So he is very upset now, and will not talk to me about it. he says how can i ever trust you again, i cant beleive you etc.. he is LIVID.. how do i tell him i didnt mean to hurt him and he should be able to trust me?? thank you so much
2006-07-12 15:37:13 · 8 answers · asked by stina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was using it too talk with my friends not other guys or people i dont know, so I wasnt using it in a wrong way. I just feel horrible for breaking my promise.
2006-07-12 15:37:57 · update #1
Well, it's bad to break a promise and it's bad to lie BUT we all make mistakes. If the relationship is really as great as it sounds (and it sounds really great) then he should come around. Besides, it won't be very long before he is wondering how long it will be before YOU come around because of something he's done.
The key here is that you meant no harm. Any guy that loves his girl can see that.
Don't worry...and good luck!!!
2006-07-12 15:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels to dissapoint a loved one. And thats what this seems to be, disappointment. You promised him and went behind his back. BUT it could be worse, you could have cheated or done something truly unforgivable. It's just Myspace. Have you tried letting him look at your account. Let him look at your friends so that he sees you are just talking to friends. He seems a bit jealous and threatened by the thought of you talking to other people. I hope he is not controlling. Well, besides letting him have full access to your account, I don't see anything you can do except delete it if it really makes him that mad. There are just some things you have to sacrifice in the name of love. Good luck.
2006-07-12 15:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what does he have against myspace? Is it really against your usage of this site to connect with friends, or is this something that is drawing out another emotion in him, like insecurities or past hurts, etc. (past relationship found someone else on myspace, etc.)? It is not cool that you said you wouldn't do something and went around his back, but I would have to ask what is causing such a reaction from him. Usually people fear and hate things they do not understand or misunderstand. If it really is just myspace that he hates, but he's okay with you using the internet, email, etc., then I would suggest that you find other means that are out there to connect with friends and family. If it's other issues, well then that's something to be dealt with.
2006-07-12 15:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by skyhi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one's perfect and this is not HUGE, like cheating or something. But, there's not much you can say, because you lied to him(I just lied, but you can trust me is not going to work). Just show him by not lying anymore. Maybe it's important to him. You realized that when you said you wouldn't. It's not that you went on there, but the fact that you told him you wouldn't, then disregarded your promise. You shouldn't lie, unless you don't want people to trust you. Your friends don't have telephones? You don't see your friends?
2006-07-12 15:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 23:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard to give advice on. You did break his trust, even though its not something that most people would think is real big, but to him it is. I wish I could give you something on it, but I'm not sure I have a good answer to help.
2006-07-12 15:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are treating your husband like a stranger.
2006-07-12 15:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's right..you're wrong ...apologize...promise to never again (and live up to it) and move on.
2006-07-12 15:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by homerunhitter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋