ive been with my boyfriend for 8months now and i love him very much. ive began staying round his on a regular basis but my mum is concerned im being used again by not getting engaged to him. she wont let me stay round his anymore or move in with him. He is very concerned what he has done to create this feeling in my mum. please help!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-12 15:35:27 · 10 answers · asked by ABs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have they met, has she really got to know him? Maybe if she does she won't be concerned all that much.
2006-07-12 15:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help what? Your mom is right, move in when you are married. This setting up and playing house is definitely not the way to go that is if you are searching for a lasting relationship. If you are content being a live in lover, maid, and cook with none of the benefits then go ahead I certainly thought more of myself and thank goodness my daughter does to. My daughter lives on her own and has for 6 years but her and her boyfriend agree they will not live together out of respect for one another. He wants to marry her but she is dragging her feet and he said he loves her with all his heart and soul and he will wait for her as long as it takes. No love is not on a trial basis, I know that is how most treat it today and that is why so many divorce. Stay with mom or get a place of your own but make it on your own until you marry, you won't be sorry in the end but you will be if you do otherwise. Take it slow, don't rush into anything if he doesn't agree than he just doesn't love you enough anyway to make a long haul just a short trip.
2006-07-12 22:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by joejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that your mother is just concerned about how your life is going and where it is going to end up... I think you should take the time out and look at your own life and see if you have put it on the back burner for the man you decided to give your world too.. Maybe your mother doesn't want you to get too caught up in a man, to the point you waste your own life by simply rushing threw it.
Take your time and just enjoy what you have no need to fight over something that is going to be or not be.
Sit down and talk with her and explain how you really truly feel and ask her for her blessing in this relationship if that was you truly want
2006-07-12 22:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum souldn't have any say so in your relationship unless the guy is a jerk or on drugs or doing bad stuff. I don't know why your mum don't like him but if it's for none of the above reasons the do what you want. You're a grown woman.....or are you not?
2006-07-12 22:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt really like the guy or she might not trust him or maybe she is afraid of you getting hurt by being used again but to me it doesnt sound like you are being used it just sounds like you are a normal happy couple
2006-07-12 22:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being used
2006-07-12 23:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by gud_gurl2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it more time it can get ur mom to get to know him more. have him around the family
2006-07-12 22:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask your mom Wat's wrong with him and try to compromise
2006-07-12 22:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish u learn how to spell
2006-07-12 22:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been staying round his...? what?
2006-07-12 22:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by purplekristi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋