even though he hurt me sooo much and is a complete jerk, but yet i still have feelings for him?? i hate him, but i love him.
am i stupid for still liking him?i can't help it, but i feel like ppl are gonna be like oh wow yer f-ed up if u still have feelings for him.
so what should i do? should i get back together with him, or is this just part of me getting over him?
2006-07-12 15:30:10 · 13 answers · asked by lifeistough_period 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You like him for who he WAS. Accept who he is right now; a bastard. Then leave him! MOVE ON.
2006-07-12 15:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by nomucatoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don think so if hes a jerk,and i no cause i just went thru kinda the same thing wit a girl,we talked about gettin in a rlationships we were all tellin each other that we loved each other the next thing i no,she emails me sayin that its not gonna work out and she was already seein a guy she met on a cruise last summer,just he came to town,so im not talkin to her anymore i want nothin to do wit her,and if she even talks about havin a relationship wit me im tell her to forget it she had her chance and she blew it
2006-07-12 22:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by Gollum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Me and my boyfriend broke up and he hurt me real bad...I hated him as much as I loved him. but we got back together and we are doing good. The main point is, don't let other peoples opinion ruin how you might feel. It all depends on how much you love him. He might have had time to rethink what happen and relized what he had. If you do decide to go for it...take your time and go slow, don't jump back in too fast for it could lead to heart break. good luck.
2006-07-12 22:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as you, I can't believe someone has the same problem I do. But honestly, don't get back together with him, it just prolongs the agony. It's easier to move on if you make up your mind and get an iron wall up.
2006-07-12 22:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hi : 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's part of the break up blues. you might have feelings but if your able to say that it was a terrible relationship how can you think of going back? stay away from him or that terrible relationship could get worse. stand up straight hold your head up smile and never let them see ya sweat.
someone else will come along to take your mind off of him. good luck.
2006-07-12 22:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sure you still like him, your attracked to him, its not like his looks changed, but would you really want to be with him again, like if you new you would get hurt. You are feeling the after effects of it all. It happens to almost everyone. If you can forgive him, maybe it would best to be friends.
2006-07-12 22:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the right thing to do.
Yes, you are stupid for still having feeling for him. Move on.
2006-07-12 22:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll be soon over....ur feelings for him....
just think that if u get back with him, he'll just treat u like a tramp...n it will go on to his head n hurt u even more...
2006-07-12 22:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ushould go out with some onelsehappen to show up where he is with another guy and make him gelious
2006-07-12 22:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, honey. i realized u like this boy but dont torture yourself find someone new, and caring and sweet. it may take a while but dont keep going on this way. its time to move on.
2006-07-12 22:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋