He is so cute, nice, sweet, funny, and caring. I love him so much. The reason we broke up the first place is because our "so-called-friends" told him I said stuff about him and told me he said stuff about me. Confusing, huh???? Well, he says he loves me SO much, I'm beautiful, and he wants to be with me. Should I go back out with him?????
2006-07-12 15:26:15 · 14 answers · asked by mmcgraw101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
an ex is an ex is an ex, don't do it!!! remember why he is an ex???
2006-07-12 15:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by beaniefufer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships can be so hard sometimes! I know b/c I've "been there, done that"!
If the matter between you has all been settled, first I'd drop this "so called" friend. You don't need people like that interferring in your relationship.
Second, I'd like to know, if there was trust there in the first place, how did this original break up even happen? Was there no trust between the two of you?
Relationships NEED trust, communication. Without these, you have no relationship!
I'd say since you're both still in love, then YES! Give it another shot. But, if for whatever reason you break up again, then consider that this relationship was just not meant to be!
You know the old saying . . . "If you love something set if free. If it comes back to you, it is yours. If it does not, it was never meant to be"
You and your mate apparently DO want to make this work - so I sincerely wish you the BEST of luck!!!!! I would also consider "talking" about your issues, getting them out in the open and making decisions on how to deal with future problems. GOOD LUCK, honey!
2006-07-12 15:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why'd U break up N the 1st place. It must B important. And if U wanna go out then why didn't it work out the first time. I completely understand where U R coming from but, if the first time he hurt U or made U feel unsafe. then why would U wanna repeat it. Whatever happened the first time iz a good reason 2 say no. But like if it was something simple like he forgot ur anniversary or birthday and U completely went all out on him. Then U could restart. But think about the main part. Why'd it end the first time and do U wanna repeat it?
2006-07-12 15:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by - 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you're asking each and every of the incorrect questions. He walked out on you, and reported not in any respect. You owe him no longer something. So what if it hurts his emotions, because quite, what about your emotions? He won't be able to make excellent on that. you're in a great position, please do no longer be the female who throws away the forged to keep the valueless. keep Mr. excellent, do not commerce him in for Mr. - i do not desire you ever again. If the ex reported it once and walked out once - for some different person (which he's not saying) then he will do it again the subsequent time he receives a threat. Why wreck your heart, and the guts of a great guy, for the valueless guy? do not do it.
2016-10-14 10:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it if he listens to his friends and you listen to yours then no. The first thing you both need to do is trust in your selfs that you are you own boss. If you had really cared and he did then you both would have told your friends that they dont support you so who you are with is your Life. I would really look to see if you really care and if you two can leave your friends out of the picture of who you both date then its you call.
2006-07-12 15:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better find out first IF he said anything to others about you.Since you ask for advise I figure you not completely sure about HIM, right? Just don't leave yourself open for getting hurt.
2006-07-12 15:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds nice and all but just cause he sounds like that now doesnt mean he really is u no?idk i don think u should cause it didn work out once is there somethin different that makes u think it will if u try again?
2006-07-12 15:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Gollum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One more time u need to set some ground rule's if he break's them dump him. Your in charge of your feeling's not him.
2006-07-12 15:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he sounds like a good guy.
2006-07-12 15:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur beautiful... now will u go out with me
dumb woman
2006-07-12 15:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it didnt work out b4 what makes ya'll think it'll work out now? it just wasnt meatn to be
2006-07-12 15:28:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋