2006-07-12 15:25:50 · 15 answers · asked by Shannon N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to each other about fantasies and or other interests you'd both be willing to explore. Buy a book on sex positions and make it a point to try and explore them. That always brings fun to the game. Also try dressing up or using toys...whatever your both comfortable with!
The main thing is talk talk talk. Tell your partner that you've been thinking about exploring some things in the bedroom and that it sounds fun to you. See how they respond. The main point is to remember that your both adults, and its OK to try new stuff with each other. It IS fun and who else can you do that with?
HAve fun and good luck!
2006-07-12 15:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should never be boring..I mean are you thinking about fixing your tire while having sex??
I would suggest this:
Get a big jar...each of you cut out 182 slips of paper equaling 365 to match the days in the year....On each paper write down your sexual desires, fantasies, positions etc (both of you) and place them in the jar...dont tell your partner what you wrote I mean you can get wild with this or even on quite a few write.."No sex or "just cuddle' you get where I am going with this? anyway every night pull out 1 slip and perform the act on the paper regardless of what is written on it. This adds mystery and excitment in the relationship plus you both can get real kinky with it...I mean there could be a night that you both are real horny...but the slip of paper says..."No sex just cuddle!" that makes sex the next day 2 times better because of anticipation...try it I am sure it will bring those sparks back.
2006-07-12 15:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by nuance92551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up, Baby!! Try LOTS of new positions, roll play, porn, costumes. There are so many new things to try that there is no excuse for boring sex! Try doing it in the kitchen, or on the steps or whatever. If you live together, come home from work one day and walk through the door and just go at it! Screw the niceties and just get right down to it.
2006-07-12 15:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by linds_a_lot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're bored, what precisely is boring? Is it the sameness of the sex? Is it because you've fallen right into a habitual? you're 19. sex should be interesting. What turns you on? Touching him or him touching you? you've gotten an nighttime the position you tell your bf, that you're going to do what oyu pick with him and he can no longer contact you in any respect. then change. in the different case roleplay or tell your bf to do in spite of he needs to you. Do you detect masturbation better fulfilling than sex? if so, what do you imagine even as masturbating? attempt this including your bf. Be grimy. Be secure.
2016-12-01 04:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by dahle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the euphoria can only last so long. go to a sex shop and pick out something together. it does not have to be a vibrator or porn either. just something that will excite both will do. wayching porn together can be fun too. dressing up, massage oils. just some ideas.
2006-07-12 15:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by gonecrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
role-playing...toys...anything out of the ordinary is good...sex anywhere, anytime..within reason no doubt...go to a shopping mall, have sex in a stall in the washroom...find a forest..have lunch, then sex in the wilderness...different positions as well...there are SO many things out there to try...what are you waiting for?
2006-07-12 15:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you are around his family give his dad or brother a lap dance.
2006-07-12 15:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by spacenexttome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha go a month or 2 without it and then do something in a public place....i know from experience, after that it is out the roof...OMG
2006-07-12 15:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start up a conversation about fantasys and get to know your partners wants.....drive them crazy and they will usually do the same oh and be honest tell them it is not everything you want give suggestions
2006-07-12 15:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe try some crazy sex toys...Or if you havent try differnt positions
2006-07-12 15:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋