I would like to make my first date with a young lady that i've been t alking to for a few weeks.I'm a man of few words and i'm not very emotional as far as romancing and the age difference is about 14 years.What could a 45 year old and a 31 year find to talk about on a date?And what things can we do together to keep us both interested?I don't drink and i don't go out a lot so i don't know if we'll find much in common to talk about.
2006-07-12 15:08:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her about herself. Everyone's favorite topic.
Honor her at a nice place.
2006-07-12 15:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm white, but I'll comment. Be yourself. Make reservations at a nice (not most expensive) restaurant that serves a variety of food in the trendy part of your town, if you have a trendy part, then take a little walk and maybe get some coffee. Most women are yakkety, yakking all the time so I wouldn't worry too much about conversation, but what have you been talking about for the last few weeks. Obviously, don't cuss or spit, but shave, get your hair cut, wear a button shirt and dress pants and shoes. Be polite, but not overly so. I hope you have a great time. Good luck.
2006-07-12 22:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've obviously have things in common if you all have been talking for a few weeks, so it's probably not as hard as you may think. Since you don't go out much, maybe you can try asking her what she would like to do. Also, dinner and a movie is always a safe choice.
2006-07-12 22:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by koko kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing a white girl would expect a man to say....all the right things there's no difference.
2006-07-12 22:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same things you would say to anyone else. You don't need to have a script just because she's black. Why make a difference? Just be yourself, and you'll be just fine!!
2006-07-12 22:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have yourself convinced that all is doomed
if she has "pushed" for this date, then kindly back out
if you want to do this, then ask her about her interests and what she likes to do...maybe you both have something in common.
You wont know until you try....if it doesn't work out, at least you tried once, right?
2006-07-12 22:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing a white person does, I'm sure.
2006-07-12 22:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a fun place and you'll be ok. Dress sharp, be civilized, pay attention to her, that's about all anyone can do.
2006-07-12 22:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont make it racial issue and dinner and a long walk to get to know each other is a good start
2006-07-12 22:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by crow_rez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bam. 2 pts
2006-07-12 22:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Judah[[S.P.]] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋