2006-07-12 15:02:33 · 43 answers · asked by Sexy Model 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out!! If your worried about further abuse from him if you left, build up your support network. Communicate your situation to people you trust around you that can help you. They can help by staying with you so your not alone, giving you a couple different places to stay so he doesn't know where to find you, and giving you the emotional support you need to be strong to leave him.
Don't get sucked into this cycle of abuse. It is a cycle and many women get caught in it, thinking it is there fault. Congrats for seeing it early and being strong to realize it for what it is. Your a remarkable woman. Get OUT!!!
God Bless and I'll pray for your strength!!
2006-07-12 15:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is very controlling. You should never put up with someone like that because you will never be happy. You'll always be trying to please him and he'll always find something that you don't do right no matter how good you do it just for the sake of putting you down. You need to get out of this situation by tonight because if you don't, this will get worse and worse to the point where you can't even go outside,talk to your family or maybe even go to the bathroom without asking him first. There are WAY better people out there that will treat you with dignity and respect and not lay a finger on you. TRUE LOVE DOESN'T HURT.Trust me on this. RUN!!!!!
2006-07-12 15:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should or need to obey him. Nobody deserves to be abused and I do feel sorry for you. I have known people who have been abused and as simple as it is for me to tell you to leave him, I know it is not that simple at all. I think you do need to turn him into the police and press charges though and maybe seek some counseling.
2006-07-12 15:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by sweetfeet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are on good terms for the most part, and the abuse isn't daily and relentless, ask him to stop, and to get help. Explain to him that you are a woman, his equal and partner and you aren't willing to put up with abuse, but want to help him with his problem. Assure him that you will work it out together. Most male abusers have a history of abuse in their family. It's very probable that his mother or father hit him, or that he watched his father beat his mother quite often.
If you feel that you're in a dangerous situation, if you get bruised on a regular basis, have black eyes or broken bones, GET OUT.
First, you should get out of there. If necessary, get yourself immediate medical help. If not, move out. If you are cohabitating, secure another place to stay for at least a month. Stay with your parents, a close friend or co-worker, or seek out a shelter for battered women in your area. Some churches might offer you a cot, or refer you to a congregation member who will house you. You will need to be away from him until you can get him out of your space, or find your own permanent residence.
Next, get the authorities involved. Get a restraining order, and file assualt charges. Battery is illegal, whether you are married or single.
Good luck.
2006-07-12 15:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not ought to obey your boyfriend and do as he says. As you suggested he's controlling your life. you need to be allowed to bypass the position ever you favor, gown the way you favor ect. Your a grown women people. also a courting somewhat desires have self belief to artwork. If he would not have self belief you with different adult males you in basic terms isn't as chuffed as you may be. You sound like your a sensible women people, you need to benefit this a lot more suitable useful. So both tell him that issues favor to regulate and he dose not own you. If issues do not replace, I advise you split with him. have self belief me, relationships like those do not artwork. you may be happier with some different person. sturdy success and that i'm hoping all ends properly for you :)
2016-12-10 08:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? do not let this go any farther...leave as soon as u can, things will only get worst but of coarse he is gonna tell u otherwise, call the police if u are afraid-u 2 are not married so there are no ties drop his a** and find a real man, he obviously DOES NOT LOVE YOU-no one abuses the person they love, they care and protect them, tell a close friend or family member and get a ristraining order against him-best of luck, but please leave before he hurts u more-u are not a slave and he is not your master
2006-07-12 15:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of blockhead are you to ask this question? OF COURSE you shouldn't, you dupe! Get the hell out of there, call the cops, alert some authorities, do something, just don't be a nit-wit and actually take time to even *consider* that question. Geez...
2006-07-12 15:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Playwright Extraordinaire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obey him and listen until you save up enough money to get the hell outta there.
2006-07-12 15:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boil some oatmeal and throw them on his azz! It's called the Al Green Special!
2006-07-12 15:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kwikn H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should kick the ***** to the ditch. You can find you a better guy out there thats not abusive.
2006-07-12 15:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋