Tell me about your worse day! I just had mine. Can you beat it?

Question

I was told today that my cancer had grown back. My boyfriend said good bye because he can't handle it and he wants to date other women and have fun. Two girlfriends got there boyfriends back and don't have time for me anymore. I cried all day and haven't slept in two days. It's a bad hair day too! Oh, and my cat vomited on my good white shorts and the stain won't come out.

How do I handle it. I can't stop crying and life isn't worth living. It is too painful.......

Answer 1

You need to pray and let everything in Gods hands.
Your life is worth living, you should not say things like that.
Dont give up..life is to short & worth living. God is always there for you, if you let him in your life. I hope you have cause you really need to.
I am sorry to hear about you cancer..I prayed for you!
First you need to start thinking about yourself..more!
Dont worry about your friends right now or anything eles for that fact.
Take care & God Bless.
if you need to talk just email me...

Answer 2

I can't really say that I know what you're going through but I do know this, you don't need to be all stressed out at this time. This is the time you need to be extremely positive. If you believe that you can beat this (as so many people do, including my aunt) then you will. There are soooo many people that beat illnesses because of their positive thinking. You don't need so much drama. You need to be around your family- the people that love you and care about you most. You don't need to think about your jerk of a boyfriend and your selfish friends. Cheer up! Things will get better. I am praying for you. Good luck!

Answer 3

I wish I could hold you and give you a big hug sounds like you need it, My worst day was last Saturday when I caught my wife asleep with another man, I hope I don't have or get cancer but if I did then I could match your day but for now you got me beat. Good luck and hang in there Life is worth living, better days will come. Wait and see OK.

Answer 4

My worst day was the day I buried my daughter Jewel. She was six weeks and two days old. She would be a young woman now had she lived. Cancer can be overcome. I know you are terrified. My heart goes out to you. God bless and keep you safe. You know life is worth living since you have coped with this before. The man could have been a better person instead of thinking selfishly of himself.That hurt WILL get better. Think of things you want to do and determine in your heart to accomplish them. Make yourself stronger. I know that is hard. When you get so tired you want to quit,....put your armour on, pick up your sword and SLAY THAT DRAGON ! The battle is given to you. Courage. You will be in my prayers.

Answer 5

I didn't have 1 bad day I had a BAD Month! My daughter came up missing, left her 8 month old baby boy behind, whole family got sick for two weeks, son found his birthday puppy hanging from fence dead, rear ended a fire truck in Atlanta, had my money stolen from bank account by someone who got hold of my account number and three utility bill checks bounced and I have no work (I'm self employed) for the next few weeks.So hang in there because other people have bad things happen to them too. My mom says what goes around comes around. So keep in mind that those people who have turned away from you may someday need someone too. Cancer can be overcome! Keep good spirits and give it all to GOD!!! If you need a friend.......Holla! I'll keep you in my prayers!

Answer 6

I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through such a bad time in your life! I'm sorry but you really don't need a loser like that in your life anyway. He sounds like a real ***! Any guy who would ever walk out on some one during a time like this, deserves to get his *** kicked! Sorry... Anyway, I know it's hard, but be happy that he is gone. There is some one better out there for ya. But right now you need to focus one your self. You don't need a man to bring you down right now, or even the concerns of a relationship. Stick to hanging around the positive friends and family in your life. Completely cut this stupid guy off, don't even be friends with a jerk like that.
I know sometimes life seems unbearable! Like you rather not go on, cause you don't want to find out how much worse it could possibly get.
Just hold on. Try and think positive. Just remember if you can get through this, it will only make you stronger..... Best of wishes to you.

Answer 7

Yup, dats a bad day. If u need to talk or at least E-mail me a [e-mail]. Your not alone we all have bad days.
I'm a good listener and willing to give advice and emotional support. That guy that dumped you wasn't worth it. He should be there for u thick and thin. About your Cancer ask what your opption's are. You can beat it. It come's from within NEVER GIVE UP WITHOUT A FIGHT. TJ

Answer 8

Well, i can't beat your bad day, but I do come close. my worst day was june 10, 2003. I was betrayed by my wife and kids, poisoned, hit by a car and left for dead. I woke up in the hospital 6 days later on full life support, on dyalisis, naked in an intensive care unit and found out i woke up only minutes before they were going to let me finish dying because my wife and kids fought the rest of my family to finish the job and won.

I'm divorced now. My kidneys have recovered and life is much better. I am prospering and thriving away from the abuse i endured for 14 years.

Answer 9

I think the cancer thing is what made the day as bad as it could be. Boyfriend breaking up and cat puking on shorts just made it feel worse. You don't need him. Live like you never lived before. Go out and have fun.

Answer 10

About your cancer, calm down and try to relax, remember tomorrow brings a new day full of hope and life and maybe even miracles, never give up, never give up till your cold in your grave, every minute is a chance to succeed and overcome, nothing in our world is impossible you just have to have faith and believe! secondly your boyfriend doesn't deserve you, forget him, someone like that can only bring you pain in the long run, thirdly your hair will be fine tomorrow so don't moan about it and fourthly punish you cat and throw him out!! Life is worth living even more when its painful, we only reach the depths of our souls and minds when we are in pain when we are emotional. Remember there is always light after darkness!!
just believe!!

Answer 11

I'm not gonna say I'm sorry cause I have a feelin you don't want sympthy. But Life is worth living...don't give up. There are lots of wonderful things in life. Your boyfriend is a looser ( no offense) And your friends must not be very good if they can't be there for you when you need them. But you know what..if you ever just need to talk feel free to email me..I wouldn't mind just to be a shoulder to cry on...well email on. :)