2006-07-12 15:00:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a new one.
2006-07-12 15:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would definitely go talk to your boyfriend. Tell him that you want him to be honest and you aren't breaking up with him. This way he'll tell you the truth, while still feeling secure. Feel free to break up with him later if he HAS cheated on you. Think about the person who told you, and consider where the "couple" was seen together. Were they chatting in Target or another store? It's possible that they just met there by accident. OR, were they making out in a movie or staring into one another's eyes over an expensive dinner? The place is very important.
Most importantly, stand up for yourself. Don't deal with an infidelitous man. If you really love him, forgive him once. If he does it again, don't hesitate, leave him.
2006-07-12 22:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him I would say dump him right this minute. It don't matter what any one or matter who that anyone was that told you. Why live in that kind of life if you don't trust and make him live through hell putting up with you. And you put your self through hell because you do not trust.
You stop and think what is it that I want to do?
1. Kill him
2. Kill her
3. Kill both
4. Go out with someone and not care if I am seen
5. Talk about it to him / her and get things lined out and forgive.
6. Don't worry about it and go with life and have an open marrage or what ever it is you have.
What is it you want? It is up to you not this bunch in here. Some people are controlling and have to have full rule over everyone and everything and can't stand this kind of thing. And others view it as good and invite it.
So it is your life you toss the coin.
Myself I would dump you to the curb if you did not like me seeing other women and made a problem of it. Because if I was seeing someone else I can just keep right on seeing them and you picking a fight with me tells me you do not understand how I want my life. You want to control me and I must not like you that much anyway. Or maybe you are not doing what I need to keep me happy. So I may as well leave anyway. But why not have both for a while and have a little fun. Most would do me that way. All women cheat just like all men just takes the right person to come along.
I don't trust women because all of them see other men so I may as well do the same. Who should I set at home and cry about it. I can get out and have fun and find someone else too.
I say enjoy your self and that don't mean following him around trying to make his life hell just because he don't like you that much and you want to force yourself on him.
2006-07-12 22:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some research. Don't ask your boy-friend about it just yet. Look for telephone numbers, find out who the girl is. If you do find out the girl he was with, have a converstion with her. Somehow bring up your boy-friend name to her, by using a regular conversation. This should spark something. This will keep him from denying anything, like all guys do. Never say someone said something. You will get more information by just watching and researching.
2006-07-12 22:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on who told me. If it was someone I have known for a long time and trust them and believe they have nothing to gain by telling me this I would take their word and confront my boyfriend. First I would ask him what he was doing on the day in question and if he lies dump him and tell him someone say him with another girl.
2006-07-12 22:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by LouMomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haters will hate, but if it somebody that has always had your back or that you trust, then confront him. You know if your man is lying or not, tell him to be real with you.Check the situation out before you go placing the blame, and have all your facts together. That way if he is lying it show!Drop him like it's hot if he was with her!
2006-07-12 22:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by *FLIRTACIOUS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you trust? Your man or this person who gave you this information? If you say you don't know...then it doesn't matter if he was with another girl or not...if there is a lack of trust your relationship is doomed anyway. The right man for you will come along!!
2006-07-12 22:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by bebelucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding out if they are telling the truth seems like a reasonable first response.
2006-07-12 22:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by silverlinkx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your boyfriend, tell them to prove it. If you don't have total confidence then, question him about it, if you have no trust in him, break up, but tell him why. It could be that the person running to you wants you to break up with him SO they can have either you or him. either way, get to the truth be for you act.
2006-07-12 22:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test your boyfriend, if he says that he needs to go, but doesn't tell you why, then something could be goin' on. ask him stuff like, would you ever cheat on me? if you did, would you tell me? i would like for this relationship to grow on honesty, so if you really want someone else, then just tell me, because, i dont want this relationship to last, but on honesty, not on u w/ to girls....just tell me the truth..
then, if he says no, get your friends and people who care about you to help you find out the truth
2006-07-12 22:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by ! :] ♥ ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if they were just talking so what, it happens, but if there was more involved, as hard as it is, leave him. Tell him why. What he has done is extremely dishonorable to you and nobody deserves to be treated that way. If he is cheating, he does not truly love you.
2006-07-12 22:04:09 · answer #11 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋