2006-07-12 14:58:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have exactly the same problem last time too. However, the "new g/f" is me. Let you know something, I'm still with my b/f as he knows himself who is the best for him. You must really know what you want and what is best for you. I suppose some guys just cannot let go of 'ex', but how long you want to stay like this? Ask yourself, is your this current that bad that you have to keep thinking about that ex? Don't waste a girl youth if you don't love her let her go. Be a man, choose either one and that's it. ex = past and new = future. Hope you will understand that. I believe you do somehow love your new g/f just that feelings are not as strong. It's a little selfish of you not to give her chance to proof you wrong. I bet as time to come you will love your current g/f more then u know. =D I'm with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years already and we both love each another very much. He even tells me he love me more then his so call 'ex' already as he see what is real unconditional love. Good luck to you and take care of your gf~ =D
2006-07-12 15:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by BiBi 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
One of these days a long way down your road of life, your going to figure this one out truly and it goes something like this: No matter who you co-habitate with or marry or just have a relationship with-your going to have some kind of challenge or set of unique problems associated with that person! Don't matter who you pick or choose again and again. The "In Love" feelings will fade to comfort later on after a long relationship together. You can have feelings of love to any degree with just about anyone you are with. Some will be stronger and some will be weaker but either way you go-the grass is NEVER EVER GREENER on the other side! Love the one you are with or get gone but if you hurt someones ones feelings in that process, be prepared to get it back ten fold for the hurt you produce in this relationship now. Life and feelings toward each other need to be much more thought out before we change our minds and hurt someone else. Flip flopping is not a good way to start out your life my friend. Be gentle and loving in whatever you do in life.
2006-07-12 15:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make a decision and live with it. See people think love is just a feeling, but it isn't, it is a choice, a decision you make everyday to love or not love this person. Yes, the emotion is still there, but emotions change with hormones, or fights or because you had a bad day. The decision to love this person is really the part that withstands the roller coaster of emotion.
So, what will your decision be? Then live with it.
2006-07-12 15:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you really should have never moved in with the new girl, if you still have feelings for the ex. It's not fair to her or you. It would help if you knew where the ex stood in with her feelings for you. Then you have to ask yourself why do you think you still have feelings for her? What is it about her that you can't get off your mind? Not knowing your exact situation, I can't tell you to move out, but you can't mislead the new girlfriend, she'll more than likely hate you for it later. I wouldn't want to be used that way. You need to find yourself, then find the right girl for you.
2006-07-12 15:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Misty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The song says if you can't be with the one you love love the one you are with. I hate to say this but the song does not mean it is the right thing to do. If you are not in love with the one you are with do not lead her on any more but let her go as easy as you can. Staying with her will only hurt her more and make you even colder in heart than before.
2006-07-12 15:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up, i think like I ought to were born eastern or South Korean. I gave myself a Korean nickname. eastern is my second language and that i'm Nichiren Buddhist. i wish you get to visit Scotland and study extra about the Celts. i wish i'm getting to stay overseas in Japan faster or later. i'd be praying so that you'll hit upon convenience someway with this awkward difficulty.
2016-11-01 23:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you move in with her? why did it end with your ex? ex's ar ex's for a reason don't for get this, ore than likely your holding on to something your ex had that made you happy and your forgetting everything that made you unhappy in that relationship, give your new girl a chance to make you happy,and you can't now be giving her a real chance if your still thinking about your ex, if your feelings continue make sure your honest with your new girl.
2006-07-12 15:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now. never enter a new relationship until all the feeling for the old one have gone away. it isn't fair to you or the other person. you both deserve people that you love, so if you need to leave her so she can find that person, then so be it.
2006-07-12 15:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, don't play with her heart. It just isn't fair. Figure it out before you go any further
2006-07-12 15:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello...its your ex for a reason........move on. sounds like your using your new gf.
2006-07-12 15:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by sisT27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋