I meet her on my first day at college. From the moment i saw her, l fall in love with her. She was in my class. l slowly started to get closer to her. l became friends with. lf i knew that she was married i would have never done this. But when i did find out, it was to late. l was so madly in love with her.lt has been 1 year now, ever since i knew her. We still see each other a lot and we talk on the phone to. l she does not know that i love her, but reall,really love her. l don't now what to do. Sometimes l feel that i should go and tell her how i feel about her, and then a realize that she is a married woman who loves her husband and children a lot. Guys, who ever gets this message, please reply back. l really love and it just seems that we were made for each other.
2006-07-12 14:31:33 · 23 answers · asked by hero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Put your pee-pee away and leave her alone kiddo
Don't ruin her family cause you got a woody
finish your education, then get your career in gear
Maximize your value and then get a hot young chick who just wants your money
2006-07-12 14:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you two are close of enough that she feels comfortable talking on the phone with you, and she's married, you should probably address your feelings to her. Just tell her like it is, only please, please, please don't be overly dramatic, gushy, or act desperate! Remember that she is married and has kids (according to you) and you need to be sensitive to that. That being said, AS A FRIEND ONLY, tell her in as simplist terms as you can that over the past year you have grown to have feelings for her. Just be honest, and again be sensitive to her feelings. Don't expect her to jump in your arms and love you back. Maybe this confession will be enough to break most of your tension, so you're not brooding on it all the time. However, you sound pretty infatuated, which isn't always the best indicator of loving someone. Just remember, if you really love her, you want what's best for *her*, not for you. So be her friend, let her know if you think it wise, and be prepared to move on. Dude, there are too many women out there for you to be hanging on one married babe. And you're only a freshman at college! (again, according to you). Be mature and try to savor her friendship as much as you can. Hope this helps a wee bit.
2006-07-12 21:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Playwright Extraordinaire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to use the common sense God gave you and walk away from this woman and situation.......she is married and has children and I dont think you are the kind to want to break up her family and hurt her kids which is what would happen if you pursue this thing.
A married woman is off limits and you need find a girlfriend of your own who is single.....as in not married or has a boyfriend....that is the kind of woman you need to be with......its not gonna be easy but you need to walk away and get on with your education and leave her and her family be.
Think about something else......if she would cheat on your husband with you dont you think she just might turn around and do the same thing to you as well......I sure do. just walk away now before it to late.
2006-07-12 22:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by wendyceline2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away from it remember what goes around comes around
how would you like it if that was your wife someone else was trying to get to.. So day when you are married some other guy will get into your wifes pants and you will wonder why is this happening to me. Well now you know.
also if she sleeps with you or leaves her family for you. Could you ever really trust her if she steps out on her husband with you won't she do the same to you. if she sleeps with you she is not worth having
for you its a hopeless situation first she is married so you can't have her - second but if she leaves her present situation for you she is not trust worthy and not worth having
its a hopeless case pal
2006-07-12 21:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you to tell her how you feel but in this case I don't think it is such a good idea. She might be looking at you as a friend and nothing more. She is married with a family don't mess with that. Continue to be just a friend and a classmate. If she comes to you and tells you she likes you in the same way you like her don't mess with her then wait until she gets a divorce or something don't mess with a married women with children.
2006-07-12 21:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by LouMomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop taking interest in Fossils . There are lot of new fihes around and stop running behind a married woman . Even the guy who maried her also thought he is marrying a fairy but now he is screwed up and thought there were better fishes other then her .
Kiss her good bye
2006-07-12 21:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by loverindia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up her. If you ever tell her you love her, she might avoid you and both of you may not even be friends.You will feel more agony if she dun even want to see you or pick up your calls. Since she love her husband and children alot, dun be a third party to destroy a happy family.
There are a lot of ladies out there. Dun give up a forest bcoz of a tree.
2006-07-12 21:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thou shalt not commit adultry.
A prostitute seeks a piece of bread but an adulteress women seeks precious life. Can a man take fire in his bosom and not be burned?
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbors wife.
If you sleep with this lady you will never apease the husbands jealousy and even if you give many gifts he will be angry.
Don't let her take you with her eyelids.
2006-07-12 21:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, thats awful! She has Kids though, you should just leave her alone, and her husband. The best thing to do is move on, it may be tough but come on, she is MARRIED and has KIDS!
2006-07-12 21:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD.
GET A GRIP. YOU ARE A BOY TOY TO HER.
SHE IS MARRIED WITH CHILDREN??!!
PLEASE LEAVE HER ALONE AND FIND YOUR OWN WOMAN..
you are in love with a woman who cheats on her husband, right?
Don't you think she'd probably do that to you if you were together??
she is not worth it. find someone deserving of yours- and ONLY YOURS -love!!!
2006-07-12 21:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋