I meet her on my first day at college. From the moment i saw her, l fall in love with her. She was in my class. l slowly started to get closer to her. l became friends with. lf i knew that she was married i would have never done this. But when i did find out, it was to late. l was so madly in love with her.lt has been 1 year now, ever since i knew her. We still see each other a lot and we talk on the phone to. l she does not know that i love her, but reall,really love her. l don't now what to do. Sometimes l feel that i should go and tell her how i feel about her, and then a realize that she is a married woman who loves her husband and children a lot. Guys, who ever gets this message, please reply back. l really love and it just seems that we were made for each other.
2006-07-12 14:30:44 · 13 answers · asked by hero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Let her go. There's so many fish in the sea. Why mess up somebody's marriage? Not good enough? What if you pursue her and her husband shoots you dead? Would you wish, as your life is running out, that you could only turn back time...?
2006-07-12 14:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by gene_frequency 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know any husband who would be okay with another guy spendng time and talking on the phone with their wife so much. Maybe she became friends with you cause she was missing something in her marriage. Either way, she is taken. Most you'll probably get is a fling from her and then she will leave you because she has her children to think about. Maybe you should just allow yourself to find someone else who is not taken and still stay friends with her. That way you dont get dumped in the end and still get to stay friends. Also, sounds like she enjoys your company. By the way, If I was married and you went after me, I would seriously question your character.
2006-07-12 16:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by honiebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy, but she is not available. Affairs hurt all involved. Take a timeout 3 months or so to redefine your boundaries as true friends... that will sustain in the long run. Meanwhile, remain open to new possiblilities of other great women who are out there who can love you in return. After the tijme out then you can reevaluate, but bottom line she is not available to give you what you deserve and you're putting your life on hold and just risking being hurt in the end. Good luck!
2006-07-12 14:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by missy_goob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a bad crush, but she is married. you gotta let it go. if you were made for each other, you would have been married to each other. obviously her husband is the one for her.i'm sorry, but even if she has some feelings for you , this does not need to be pursued. you should'nt break up her family.
2006-07-12 14:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but if you feel she is your soulmate, you must tell her how you feel!! Or you will always question yourself.if only I would of said something. Don"t get me wrong I don"t want you to break up a family but you must know in your heart!!Maybe you are made for each other but, how will you know unless you speak up!Let me know how it goes!
2006-07-12 14:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. If you do anything it will most likely end up with both of you getting hurt. I suggest cutting yourself off from her totally and going out and finding yourself someone more attainable.
2006-07-12 14:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your pee-pee away and leave her alone kiddo
Don't ruin her family cause you got a woody
finish your education, then get your career in gear
Maximize your value and then get a hot young chick who just wants your money
2006-07-12 14:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, let her go. She's not yours. If she leaves him for you, then how do you know that she won't go back to her husband, or someone else? At this time, its not meant to be.....maybe later in life....but now....no. Let it go.......best of luck to you.....
2006-07-12 14:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let your feelings for this woman go. she is married. do you really want to jeopardize her marriage? leave her alone.
2006-07-12 14:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone, she's already committed. Find your own single woman.
2006-07-12 14:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by T R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋