Me being hot tempered made the mistake of answering one of my ex gf's phone calls. We had a bad break up because she cheated and did some other ****** up things so at that time I said some really mean stuff to her because she pissed me off so bad. I know it is wrong but I have trouble with my temper that I am working on. So then she calls again tonight and starts getting me going now she says she kept the voicemails I left her and she will use them against me. I basically told her I could careless if she dies which is wrong I know but I was extremely pissed. Tonight I told her I look at her as a scumbag and not to call me anymore. I have been trying to call to apologize to her but I feel like I am harassing and that is wrong what should I do?
2006-07-12 14:20:41 · 23 answers · asked by yeeeehaw4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I was extremely good to this girl but one thing I cannot deal with is cheating and I made the mistake of trying to work things out and not walk away. I just do not want her trying to hurt me by doing something with those voicemails.
2006-07-12 14:39:46 · update #1
Well first of all, how are u doing the harrasing when shes the 1 who keeps calling u. AND another thing if she keeps calling you then she must still like you. and if she still likes you then she will most likely call again sometime. So just wait till she calls. and then u can apologize to her. It sounds like u still have feeling for her but i wouldnt get back wit her if i were u. But if ur just tryin to tap that, then u know what to do.
2006-07-12 14:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Judah[[S.P.]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her ONE call saying that u are sorry for the way u spoke to her then hang up and do not call her again! U have to control your temper before it gets u in a lot of trouble.
If u think the one phone call will make her mad then just let what went on lay where it is! She will not listen anyway so it might be best just tl leave her alone.
2006-07-12 21:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by jibbers4204 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I am on your side 100% becasue i have been through this with my friend. If you feel like you are about to abdmouth just hang up the phone becasue then you wont feel guilty for saying anything mean. And yes you should not hang up the phone on someone on a regular basis but this is an excusabal event. When you feel ready to talk to her call . If you find yourself bad mouthing again just remember the pain you have after and stop yourself.
good luck,
2006-07-12 21:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have kids together? If not let her go and please work on your temper.
Could your temper be one of the reasons she felt she needed to cheat? Cheating is definitely wrong. I'm not saying you are to blame. It's just that if you want to have a healthy relationship you can't with a temper like that. I applaud your honesty. You seem genuine.
I'd not bother with her unless you have children. Good luck to you!
2006-07-12 21:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help for your tempeer anger management an if you truely feel that way about her. than leave her alone cause verbal abuse is just as bad as phyiscal abuse , an trust me a woman never for gets the verbal words spokento her. no matter what all she has done, send flower an start again slowly with her, an dont keep saying your sorry cause if u was than you would not do it again. good luck dude
2006-07-12 21:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by cris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try leaving her alone do not contact her do not let her contact u.it seems like she is trying 2 bate u into doing something u will regret.save urself a lot of time n trouble n cut all communications off now before u end up behind bars.
2006-07-12 21:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone before you are spending the next few years in jail, then go to some anger management classes
2006-07-12 21:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never call her again. Never speak to her again. You're heading towards a restraining order which can easily destroy your future. Forget that she ever existed and move on.
2006-07-12 21:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by DefenseEngineer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling her. Everyone gets into it, and people say things they don't mean all the time. I think she's just trying to get you mad again because she's mad that she got caught.
2006-07-12 21:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Girl in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have anything to do with her, she is your ex ,let it stay that way and get on with your life, u don't owe her anything , and nor does she ,don't give in to temptation, don't talk to her, don't leave e-mails , and stop worrying that she has something on u, good luck
2006-07-12 21:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋