I met this hottie but i'm married what should I do?
2006-07-12 14:00:31 · 15 answers · asked by CarlyKaykay123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your marriage is a committment, not something you should break lightly every time you meet a hottie. It's ok to be attracted to other people, but you need to have enough self control not to act on that. Remember you married your husband because you love him. Cheating on him would hurt him badly. If your seriously into this guy and its not just a passing attraction, then you need to break it off with your husband before you do anything with this guy.
But it sounds like its your hormones talking, not your heart. Don't let your hormones drive you. Trust me, it won't be good in the long term at all.
2006-07-12 14:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I agree with Morgan. And all the people telling her to go for it? Shame on YOU!!!! You made vowels with your husband. You never cheat! Did you stop to think about how your husband would feel about this? It would probably break his heart. If you are really into this other guy, then you need to be thruthfull with your husband and plan for divorce, before you spread your legs.
2006-07-12 14:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r not satisfid with your partner or marrage , be faithful to your marrage this hottis r not r ever, try to find hotti things in your real partner, u can also make him hotti guy. dont look here n there concentrate on your marrege partner. be carefu with l this new hotti guy he may use u and throw.
sne_mon
2006-07-12 14:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by sne_mon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be married. If you are not willing to be true to your spouse...and want to play the field...then why did you bind with your husband in the first place. As far as getting boys to love you...they all should run as far from you as they possibly can. In your present state of being, you are not fit to be loved.
2006-07-12 14:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing...marriage is a commitment. Its not like buying a new pair of shoes. Youve made a commitment stick to it
2006-07-12 14:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bluris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay loyal to your husband unless your looking for a divorce.
2006-07-12 14:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...if you're married, then don't do anything! stay loyal. if you really really like this new person you met, you need to talk to your husband.
2006-07-12 14:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married? are you & your husband happy?
2006-07-12 14:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi2Bossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do the one night stand thing. if he is better in bed than your husband then you know what to do.
2006-07-12 14:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it in a down low.
2006-07-12 14:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋