ok ive stated in the past i have axiety attacks that enables me from driving from time to time which puts a damper on a relationship where the girl likes to go places and wants me to come see her all the time would u urself settle for this situation and be understanding or would u say id have to be better first?
bc ive actually been broke up with over this matter....
2006-07-12 13:56:07 · 8 answers · asked by tat_artist_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all ifyou have anxiety attacks, please continue to not drive! im sure that you are getting proffesional help in this matter, and you shouldnt be embarrased or upset by this. if a girl doesnt understand what is going on, then you need to move on and find someone who understands. if a girl is really interested, she will either drive, pay for someone to drive, or walk/ ride a bike to where you need to be. a relationship isnt about who drives the car, its about the feelings that people have for one another.
2006-07-12 14:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I had a boyfriend with this problem. I would hope he would tell me about it early in the relationship so I did not think he was not coming over to my house because he was not interested. I would have no problem going to his house but I would also want to help him with his problem. You know; try to understand the root of the problem and where the anxiety stems from. I would go on "mini" drives with him and let him know whenever he felt anxious I would take over and drive. I guess we could do stuff like this until he got over it. If someone really cares about you they will help and understand. Good luck! Hope you don't have to end too may relationships because of your problem.
2006-07-12 14:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
****. Panic attacks are the worst! I use to get them all the time driving to. Then I went and saw a doctor. He put me on Paxil and I have been fine ever since. Four years now. It is very difficult for people who have never had any kind of anxiety like that. They can't relate and they think you are crazy. It is going to be very difficult for you. Get help and I hope you find that special girl.
2006-07-12 14:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jill P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to understand such a deifficult life, but I'm sure there's a woman out there that will. I personally am a homebody, so I'm not sure it would be that much of a problem, but you may want to re evaluate whom you find yourself attractive to.
2006-07-12 14:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally understand.I wouldnt be mad if u didnt come see me all the time.I would come see u to save u from the driving.If a girl really likes u then u she would be totally understanding.
2006-07-12 14:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur a sweet person with a good personality there is no reason for this to end a relationship. this just let u know who really likes u and who don't.
2006-07-12 14:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by hotgurl 04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i would understand but you would have to make it up to me if it was important to me so suprise her with something special <3
2006-07-12 14:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Perty N' Purple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would understand..if i wanted to see you i would pick you up myslef..
2006-07-12 19:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋