he is asking what were we doing what should i tell him , how to explain it too him ?
2006-07-12 13:51:55 · 37 answers · asked by Dayan 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
First, Let me say thank goodness you are married and not just living together as so many do today. Secondly, it is simple,you simply tell him the truth. You and daddy were making love because that is a privilege that married people have. And out of that love sometimes comes wonderful surprises like him.
Peace & Blessings
ddl
2006-07-12 14:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
A hundred years ago when most people lived on farms, there was no big mystery about sex. Little kids saw the cows giving birth, and the dogs humping, and understood what was happening as soon as they were able to. I'm not sure why nowadays we think it is important to keep them "innocent" for so long.
In answer to your question, I would just be careful not to give out more information than the kid needs. If the kid asks a question, just answer it, but you don't have to give a long-winded explanation. For example, "what were you doing, mommy and daddy?" Answer: "We were making love." Oh, ok. The kid might be satisfied with that.
Having said that, I remember telling one of my kids when he was about six, something about genetics, and how there is an egg from mommy and sperm from daddy, and that's how a baby is formed. He then asked me, "Well, how does the sperm get to the egg?" I told him I would explain that part at a later date.
2006-07-12 14:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, seeing my parents is how I found out. I ran to my older sis, and she had to explain.
Set him down, and tell him you two were exspressing your love in a certain way only adults can. If he keeps asking, then try changing the subject and distract him from that question.
Your better off facing it before he embaresses you by asking someone else what was going on...
2006-07-12 13:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by ml_fiore_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha funny. I saw my parents doing it, they are pretty open about it...well actually they just said "We were having sex" and kept it at that. Since your little one is still kind of aloof on the whole matter I would suggest that you just say "Daddy and I were just getting warm because it was cold in the room" or something simple and innocent like that.
2006-07-12 13:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sunnydays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember children mind is not as pervert as ours...
So, just explain what he wants to hear...nothing else...
Nothing but you were playing, and you usually play like that because is your father and I love him...
... That is not a lie... and will satisfy the ear of your child, the only one worried about a long and clear explanation is you... So... keep it simple... Nothing more than that...
2006-07-12 13:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a previous poster said, just explain it to him. He won't make a big deal out of it, nor do I think he'll care. Plus, it's better that he finds out now instead of later when he's like 12...
2006-07-12 14:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain that when a man and women are in love and married that they do certain things to have a baby. Let him ask questions and answer them breifly and as honestly as you can.
2006-07-12 14:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that u guys were playing. lol.. ewww i saw my parents once but it wasnt really into it yet. it was quite nasty. my dad is like what are you doing? but i acted like i didnt see anything. i didnt see much anyway. o well
u can tell him that ur husband was trying to kill you but now he has forgiven u lol. that would explain the sounds... lol =]] hope ur son doesnt hate u after... good luck altho i dont believe in luck...
2006-07-12 13:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by SJK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo thats a tough one......
i guess you can tell him you and daddy were doing grown up things that u should only do when your married, dont really say that its sex cuz i think hes too young for that, but dont lie to him either. Just say you were doing "big people" stuff.
2006-07-12 13:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 6, he'll believe anything you tell him. Wait until he's older to tell him the whole "Birds and bees" thing. Tell him you were playing "Power Rangers" and daddy was winning!
2006-07-12 13:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by wolfmano 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋