i have a massive crush on a girl who works at the same store as me. she has a boyfriend. for as long as we have bothed worked there, there has been eye contact and awkwardness between us. for a while she initiated a lot of contact with me, whenever possible . this was pretty much everytime the both of us were working during the same time it seems.i have never initiated any contact with this girl. there was some smiling and incidental contact that occured during this time when neither were called for. then, all of a sudden this contact stopped, and she avoids all eye contact with me.im confused?
i was just getting over this crush , realizing she had a boyfriend when this contact set me back to where i was to start with. then when it stopped i did not know what to think. and still dont. opinions?
2006-07-12 12:37:26 · 8 answers · asked by monkeyseemonkeypoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she could be putting you off because she has an attraction to you and does not want to put herself in a situation or conflict that could negatively affect her relationship with her man. People who are married, in relationships will always be attracted to other people. Everyone looks, however if she cares about her man she probably felt the need to minimize contact with you.
2006-07-12 12:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
I would say the girl probably considered you a friend when she would make her contact with you- or maybe she found you attractive. Given the fact that she wont even make eye contact anymore, unless you did something to provoke her cold shoulder (which you haven't said you did here...) she is probably in a controlling relationship. Her boyfriend wont let her talk to, or encourage friendships with other men.
That can be a very dangerous thing for a girl. I know... a close friend of mine has been down that road, and I took the trip with her.
Luckily she got away from the bastard, and is now controlling her own life.
Try to talk to this girl, and be a friend to her. And if she feels comfortable talking with you, maybe you can find out if there is a problem.
2006-07-12 19:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her out. You'll never be able to tell if she's interested in you if you don't. What if she has a boyfriend? so what it doesn't mean she's happy with him. She might just be sticking with him because she doesn't want to be alone.
One has to take chances that come by or you'll be regreting in the future. She might end up being the true person for you but you'll never know till you ask.
2006-07-12 19:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by young kim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious she has feelings for you, and has realized it. Leave it be. She is in a relationship and needs to focus on that, and not have you stepping in between.
You never know, things could change, that guy could fade out, and then you will have the green. Until then, do your own thang.
2006-07-12 19:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by localmeg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe her bf knows about the contact that ya'll been having and he probably told to stop looking at you while at work or else he will her so she's doing what he said to do maybe i could be wrong she could just be stringing you along playing games with your mind for enjoyment.
just stop messing with her altogether for your sake
2006-07-12 19:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by ~DANiELLE~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that she has feelings for you but maybe is afraid to show them because she does have a boyfriend. I think that if you still like her, then go for it and follow your heart. Good luck
2006-07-12 19:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by sexi_lexi_15 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She really likes you, but she just doesn't know how to deal with it bcuz of her BF.
2006-07-12 19:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by pinayprincez17 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE SHE LIKE'S YOU AND DON'T DARE TO SHOW IT
2006-07-12 19:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by wolfelady692003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋