Is it right for my husband to want watch another couple have sex while sex do it??? I think it is, but I want to make him happy. I am a christian and have made my own mistakes in the past. This is really hurting me bad because I know whats right.
2006-07-12 12:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you are truly of The Christian Faith You can not do that. You state you know what is right so you already know this.. If there is threat to you to do this or you hve fear Get Out of that situation...Your husband has no respect for you or your feelings if he is trying to compel you to do this.
If you were a Christian before you married you have already commited one sin by getting married to a non-believer. Do not make it worse by going along with this... ..
2006-07-12 12:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by IdahoMike 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow. i cant believe your man. im christian too. and i dont agree with what your man wants. so let me get this....your man wants to watch another couple having sex in the same room as you two are doing it too? or watch on tv while you two are doing it?
if he wants to do it with others in the same room then thats bad and sick and horrible. dont let him. but if he wants to learn some new moves and get horny while watching a porn video, then i guess if you are okay with that, try it. but dont let it becom a habit.
or do you think that he might be interested in other guys or girls? and thats why he wants to watch others? this might also mean that you two are not soooo good in bed. try new things. but dont ever let another person have sex with your man or you or both of you. you two got married to be with each other and only each other. dont let him do what he wants. you have to agree to it first. and if your not okay with it, then dont do it. buy books that teach new ways of having sex. or go online and look up new sex moves. i hope it goes okay and i hope he doesnt make it a habit of watching others having sex.
2006-07-12 19:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with it then tell him, he has a duty unto you first. Maybe you can talk and agree on what you both like to do, maybe if you know why he wants to and see if you are open-minded to explore a lil too. There is nothing wrong with sex its good, clean and fun wink
2006-07-12 19:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by AlwaysLaughing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone have there thing "sex life" behind close doors. That's why it is important ask all these types of question before you get married. I think that it is wrong for him to put you in this position. Ask him to do something degrading that you know he would't want to do. Ask him how does it feel.
2006-07-12 19:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If you are a Christian buy a gun and go shoot somebody...that is the essence of the bible. Stay away from sex...we dont need Christians having fun or procreating.
2006-07-12 19:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand exactly what you said he's doing. But regardless of what a religion thinks is or isn't right, if it makes you feel bad he should refrain from such actions.
2006-07-12 19:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by laetusatheos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then if you are a Christain you should tell him that it is wrong. Sex is a sacred gift from God to wedded couples
2006-07-12 19:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by likeskansas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you are not comfortable with that situation DO NOT DO IT!!! Secondly, there is nothing wrong with it if it is something that all are consenting to. Do not allow him to presure you into something you are not comfortable with. I hope that helps.
2006-07-12 19:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good to me, but I would say if it makes you uncomfortable it's not cool regardless of beliefs and he should respect that.
2006-07-12 19:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by trulyblssd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. You will not enjoy it and will only regret it after.
2006-07-12 20:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by debisioux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋