I'LL BE IN 11TH GRADE THIS YEAR:).I HAVE ALL A'S!!!!!!!!
CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME BECOME POPULAR AND PRETTY.
HOW TO MAKE GUYS PAY ATTENTION TO YOU AND HOW MAKE POPULAR PEOPLE HUNG OUT.WHAT IF THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO DON'T LIKE YOU BUT YOU WANNA BE THEIR FRIEND.......HOW DO U START CONVERSATION WITH THEM? I'M SO AFRAID............HELP ME PLEASE :( HOW TO BECOME FRIENDS WITH POPULAR PEOPLE? HOW TO BE VERY INTERESTING.PLEASE DON'T ASK ME WHY I WANT THIS.IT'S TOO HARD TO EXPLAIN BECAUSE I'VE BEEN THROUGH MANY THING IN 9TH AND 10TH GRADE.wHAT TO DO WHEN I LOOK AT PREP PEOPLE AND I'M GETTING TURNED DOWN? HOW TO ACT COOL LIKE " CAN'T HOLD ME DOWN THING?"
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR TIME AND I WISH YOU THAT ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE.
THATNK YOU SO MICH
PLEASE GIVE ME BEST AND MOST DETAILED ANSWER..........I'M SO CONFUSED :( :( :( ;( ;( ;(
2006-07-12 12:19:22 · 4 answers · asked by victoria E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It has been a while since I was in high school, but I will try to give you some pointers. First of all, being the "popular" kids in school is not always the best situation to be in. Back when I was in school, I used to be in with the preppies. Sure it did have it's advantages, but then again being part of that group meant that you pretty much had to act, look, and dress like everybody else in the "group" There is not much room for individuality in the "Popular clique" To be totally truthful, looking back on those days, I really think I would have chosen to NOT hang with the preps, and just be me! I think it would have been better to make friends that liked me for me, not for who I was hanging out with, how I dressed, what kind of car I had, or how much money was in my wallet.
At one point just about everybody wants to be Mr. or Mrs. Popular in their school. Some will just naturally gravitate towards that group, while there will always be the group of people that hate the popular ones because they-themselvs simply don't know how to socialize.
A question for you is what group do you currently hang with now? If you already have friends in that group, do you think they will still be your friends if you start climbing the "social ladder?" Is it really worth it to diss whoever you hang with now to hang with the preps? An other question is, what if you get in with the popular kids, but for some reason after a little while they stop accepting you into their clique? (Which sometimes happens) Then you will really be in a tough spot because you have already upset you old friends by abandoning them, and the cool kids don't want to have anything to do with you. You see, being popular is not the only thing that matters.
I would hope that you would rather choose to just be yourself, and if they like you... that's good. If not, it really does not matter. By just being you, you never have to worry about who you can talk to, what to wear, or if you are getting the approval of others in the clique. Being yourself is the best route because you never even have to give a second thought to whatever you do. You can just do it... because that is just how you are.
By being yourself, you will naturally gravitate to people that also want to be individuals, and those are the ones you really should want to hang with. They will be "real" people, instead of the "fake, and same as each other preppies"
If you are really hell bent on being part of the cool kids, perhaps you could get involved in some of the same activities they do. Things like Cheerleading, or even certian sports will give you a natural way to get closer to the croud you really want to hang with.
Whatever direction you choose to take, I wish you well. Just remember, try to find the group of friends that makes YOU feel the most comfortable. You can never go wrong with a true friend. Good luck, and have fun!!!
2006-07-12 12:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by jam961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is this, high school is a rough time, and it is full of superficial @**holes, but acceptance is an important thing for a teenager to experience. My advice is this: Learn to love yourself first, because really a HUMBLE respect and confidence for onself is what attracts people. Also, a lesson I learned the hard way, and still am, do not try hard. (or at least make it look like you aren't)
2006-07-12 12:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to do that... is to act like you dont give a damm...
2006-07-12 12:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start wering new hair stiles
and and cloths
and
well
hope your dreams come true!!!
2006-07-12 12:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dani_is_HOT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋