My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months. At school, we haven't seen each other that much but in the summer we see each other at camp everyday. He's closer to my friends now then before, and I'm not really jeaslous but lately he's been hanging around them a lot and leaving me to chill with them. He brokje plans twice to hang with them and then I get mad and I kind of feel guilty for being mad and I don't know how to handle the situation. Please help me with what I should do. I don't want to break up with him because he's the only guy that treats me nice but I don't know what to do.
2006-07-12 12:14:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Communicate to him. Start a conversation with something like "It seems like we haven't been spending as much time together lately" and see what he says. Its our normal reaction to assume the worst in these types of situations to protect ourselves. However, he must just really be making some good friends and gets carried away with hanging out.
Your best bet is to talk with him when your not mad. Approach the conversation with an open mind. Listen to what he has to say. If it really bothers you with the amount of time your now spending together tell him something like "I understand you want to hang out with friends too and I think that's important too, but I'd really like it if we could spend a little more time together too. Do you think we could?" and see what he says.
My guess is that if you talk to him, things will work out. Don't let it fester underneath until your so pissed or stressed about it.
2006-07-12 12:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's leaving you to go hang out with your friends then he's obviously not treating you nice. You can do much better and you will if you don't get caught up in stuff like this.
2006-07-12 19:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by shadie_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's still interested in you and treats you good then you shouldn't be worried. Now if he's hanging out with one of your GIRL friends by himself then I might worry a bit. Just talk to him and find out. You may just be overreacting.
2006-07-12 19:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first think if you really want to break up with him since you two have dated for months ok.now the promblem with his friends .well you dedcide if you really want to go with him or let him be with his friends but ask him not to make fun or to make fun of you or you will then break up ok good luck my friend and if you need a friend email me ok.i will answer you back ok
2006-07-12 19:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by markhanna3rd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you, he would rather want to spend time with you. there's other guys out there who are way better than him, and it's only been 4 months not even a year. trust me you'll get over him quick.
2006-07-12 19:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely_Latina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk to him and let him know how you feel. He may not realize how you feel about the situation!
Once you talk to him, you will know what to do.
2006-07-12 19:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by russell97yzf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, get some confidence
2006-07-12 19:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. tell him u feel. If he's bf material, he'll understand. if not, let him go. u could talk to ur friends 2.
2006-07-12 19:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you need to talk to him and make sure that he knows how you are feeling and then go from there
2006-07-12 19:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by {*}brown-eyed beauty{*} 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on having fun and being really pleasant and nice when you are with him anytime.
2006-07-12 19:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋