Does anyone out there think that porn is wrong? i caught my bf looking at porn in my apartment this past weekend and he lied about a lot of sh**. i walked in and saw him on the computer not just looking at the screen. then i flip out and he doesnt really say anything. when i see him later he tells me he doesnt know why he did it and said he never does that sh** and that he was only on it for a minute before i came in. well then i tell his mom what happened and she says she caught him a couple months ago so he lied about that and then i checked the history on my computer and he was on over 30 sites and videos of this sh** and knew exactly what to type in. so ofcourse i broke up with him and he is trying to get me to take him back. oh and i just found out yesterday that he cheated on his ex but he denies that too. what would you have done?
2006-07-12 12:13:48 · 23 answers · asked by Blondie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he cared about you he wouldve told you the truth but he didnt even after you found out and
if he was honest you probably wouldve understand right??
but he wasnt and you did the right thing by breaking up with because hes not going to think that he can do some and get away wid easly,...but as for taking him back you need to put everything from yo last realationship together and see if its worth it!
2006-07-12 12:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by maxed_out102 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-21 05:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, men are the lions in the jungle and it is our nature to hunt. We hunt for a while until we make a kill that we think will last a lifetime. Then the kill becomes stale because its always the same. So the hunt begins again looking once more for the right kill. Moral of the story is to be the right kill to the hunter so he wont be thinking of ever going back to the jungle. Give the hunter what he wants when he wants, and always with a little different spice and he will never think about going hunting again.
2006-07-12 13:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by travis43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi blondie!I'm Maria Monica.at first I would like to say that there is no boy in the world that doesn't waching porn!Is really common so you defenetly don't have 2 blame yourself for not being a good lover.
So my answer is that is up to u what you're gonna do with that prob!There are women that don't really mind but there are also women that think that this is cheating!You are in the second category,so if it feels right to u to breake up with him that is what you have to do.
I'd also like to say that:bacause he has cheated on his ex doesn't mean that he will do the same to u!My bf has cheated on all his ex(he had confessed me that without ask him anything)but with me he is really differend.
Everybody worth a second chance but if u can't forgive him don't take him back because your relationship probably would not work out!It's really up to you!!
I hope I helped!Kisses.....!!!
2006-07-12 12:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Maria Monica T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three words...porn is wrong! Men should not disrespect their women by watching other women. First of all, it is morally wrong. Second of all, why would a man want to look at something else when he has something great in his hands already. Don't listen to people that say, "Men have needs," and all that kind of junk. It is just simply not true, and if a man loves you, he won't need that stuff. You are better off without him. God bless.
2006-07-12 12:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Faith C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I wouldn't have broken up with him over porn. It's just porn I mean it's not like he's going to go F*** those girls. Me and my man watch it together, and I know he be watching it when I'm not with him, but it doesn't really bother me. I think you have to be comfortable with your-self, and you have to take porn just like any other movie because most guys watch it. About him cheating on his ex that's past history so let it go. Good Luck!
2006-07-12 12:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like porn.. at least most guys. I don't think it should really be an issue. Now the lying is an issue. If he's an otherwise "good guy", I wouldn't dump him for the lying about it, cuz he was prolly just embarrassed. If you could be more accepting of it, so he didn't feel like he had to lie, then maybe you would have the perfect relationship.
2006-07-12 12:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would NOT have flipped out like that for sure. making a guy uncomfortable about being curious about sex and examining is perfectly natural. If I was him I'd be glad you dumped me.. because you are nuerotic and controlling. just because you think something is wrong doesn't mean you have to enforce that on your b/f. because THAT's wrong. AND you told his MOTHER!? What the HELL!? what kinda g/f tattles to his mom. your his girl NOT his sister.
you are worse than Kyle's mom from south park. you prude
2006-07-12 12:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-07-13 03:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him.........stay away. Not only because of the porn but he lies. I don't like a lier. Never have, Never will. Honesty is the only way to go.
2006-07-12 12:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Nana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋