On top of that he's shorter than me, I'm 20, he's 18. He kinda looks like he would be 16. Should I keep seeing this guy? I mean when I first met him he told me he was 19, than he told me 18, than he told me 16 ( I freaked out!) than he told me he was really 18 and he showed me his I.D. It says 18. But it could be fake, right?
2006-07-12 11:51:55 · 15 answers · asked by pinayprincez17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, your relationship started with him lying to you. NOT a good start. Then he lied to you again with the age. One lie after another. I think that should answer your question already.
Another, if you have to ask people what you should do about this, you probably need to cut him off. Your still pretty young yourself. But your mentallity is a little different from his.
Just through experience, I've found most peoples way of thinking were different in the following age group:
13-15
16-18
19-24
25-27
27-...
This all has to do with your age. Each age range experiences different things. And it's these expriences that become a base in how you view things in life. Trust me, how you see things now (whether you'd like to admit it or not), will be much different when you are in your mid 20s. And different again when you in your late 20s. You'll end up looking back in your life and say "what the hell was I thinking?!"
Point being, this guy will probably be more trouble than he's worth. Move on. You'll meet other guys who are a little more mature. And more honest. And after these guys, you'll meet other guys, who are more mature, and so fourth. Your young, enjoy your life. But be SMART. Don't get too caught up in ONE guy at your age.
Good luck.
2006-07-12 12:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by JustAdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from the premise that he has lied to you, you should consider whether or not that you desire to continue this relationship. What else could he have lied about, right? However, the fact that he is younger and graduated from high school does not really matter. For your own sake and legality, you should defintately make sure that he is 18. Be very careful in this case, particularly since it seems like he has decieved you. Only you, knowing the full circumstances, can determine whether or not you should continue seeing him. Be careful though. Good luck to you!
2006-07-12 19:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should not worry about the age difference. Even if he is 16 ( you may have to worry about having sex with him). As long as you like him for who he is and yall get along, go for it, you never know, in a coupld of years, he could be the one for you!
My girlfriend is 30 and I am 24, we fell for each other the night we met, but as soon as she found out how old I was she freaked out. It seems like a lot of girls do when the find out someone is younger then them (this is why some guys will lie when they are seeing someone older). Now we are both very happy that she decided to give me a chance. I just bought a $2K ring for her and will pop the questions this weekend!
Give it a chance, age is nothing but a number!
Russell
2006-07-12 19:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by russell97yzf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make ur relationship work if u stop talking about the age difference.
It's not that he'stwice younger than u or something.
If you have feelings for him and love him, I don't see the reason y u shld stop seeing each other.
2006-07-12 18:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age and looks should not even be a factor in whether or not you should stop seeing him. dont be shallow. if you care about him, stay with him. i have a friend who dated and married a guy four years older than her and are absolutely perfect. get over yourself and your image. obviously it must embarrass you or else you wouldnt even be asking...if he is right for you, forget the age...you are close enuff that it doesnt matter.
2006-07-12 18:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that you should ask yourself if you like this guy or not. And i guess if age doesn't matter to you and if you really like this guy then continue to see him if you want to.
2006-07-12 18:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by gwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't have sex and he is a minor, everything should be OK. If you like him, talk to him, period. If you want to have sex, then tell him you must have proof that he is not a minor.
2006-07-12 18:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by ashley j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be but if you like him i say go for it you only live once.
2006-07-12 18:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't look good b/c he started with lies. do you think he gonna tell you the truth in future? think about it. about the ID , it can be fake, but u just have to know how to look at it or you can check it with your local athority. i also have my own problem, if u would like to share more in datial, please feel free to contact me. thanks
2006-07-12 19:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if he can not tell the truth he not worth it just get ride of him.
2006-07-12 18:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋