would you be pleased if a girl told you about her feelings for you..especially if she was really honest and really in love with you or would that scare you away??
2006-07-12 11:22:49 · 21 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it wouldn't please me in the sense that it would satisfy me, it would flatter me more than anything. if she confesses, i'm not gonna turn the cold shoulder all of sudden and avoid her. i'd acknowledge her feelings, not necessarily reciprocate them but acknowledge them nonetheless
2006-07-12 11:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by metronome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imteresting question...
Personally, if someone needs to let our their emotions, I let them do that, mainly because I am somewhat of a wallflower.
The question has a few factors in it:
1. Girl tells feelings
2. She was honest
3. In love
4. Scared yet?
These factors can add up to be different things for different people, and the situation around them.
I think that the main thing is timing. People fall in love at different rates. Someone will swim there, whilst another will take a bus. If these two fall in love, they will not always reach the same destination at the same time.
I hope that analogy was virtual enough to understand it.
Basically, It depends on where you are in the relationship, and how acceptive the person is that learns the emotions.
In my case, I would want my significant other to say their feelings on any day. If it was too soon for me, I would want to continue the relationship and allow my side and their side to think. People will say things that they may believe in, but in the end may not be true. You can only know in the end.
Hope this helps,
Russ
2006-07-12 18:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by russ2246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell them by making small inocent jokes... like if he says something or does something you like..you can say "THAT'S why a luv ya". Be a little physical... hugs, tickles, short inocent shoulder massage. Maybe a kiss now and then. You can also ask him without being too serious if he ever thought of the both of you taking it a next level... stuff like that... You can also invite him to a famliy wedding or something and he'll get the idea... If he is still linterested you have a green light to tell him... if you see him pulling away DON'T !!!
2006-07-12 18:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Maximus C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the age. Up until about 24 it scared the crap out of me. After that it is really cool
2006-07-12 18:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by TheDoctor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men withdraw from confrontation especially if they don't feel the same way. You could risk it, but be prepared for rejection. Life is full of risks. Sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. Good luck.
2006-07-12 18:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would scare me. So just take it easy, ok. PLay around a lot that's what make the whole situation more comfortable.
2006-07-15 08:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Aracuse M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hellz yeah I would be pumped...if the dude runs away it is because he is scared and doesn't know what to do...or of course he is just an ***. Go for kiddo
2006-07-12 18:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how well I knew her. If she was an acquaintance, I might be a little scared. If she was a close friend, I wouldn't mind it.
2006-07-12 18:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Milo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be flattered. My reaction would depend on the girl, but I wouldn't get scared or anything..
2006-07-12 18:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by megaloooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the golden rule about dating or finding relationships is to let them know that oyu are interested in them from the beginning.. and if it doesn't work THEN be friends.. that would help you save alot of confusion.. i think that if it's going to drive you nuts you mine aswell.. don't be afraid of feeling awkward about.. but I would lay it on him slowly.. don't confess your undying love for him right away.. test the water
2006-07-12 18:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if I felt the same way about you I would be very happy. And if I didn't, I would feel very uncomfortable.
2006-07-12 18:27:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋