my little brother is constantly getting in trouble for everything! you name it. Cutting girls hair, fighting, cheating, being rude (disrespectful), just everything. My moms a god fearing woman and so is my father, we are a normal family, and me and my sister are fine, but my little bro, whos now in 3rd grade, tells me .... HE LOVES TO GET I TROUBLE... WHY IS THIS???
2006-07-12 11:20:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
when hes in school he gets in trouble, but hes an angel at home. So my mom is all confused cuz the teachers are saying he's bad, and yet all she sees is good. And he does get disciplined just like me and my sis did and still do.
2006-07-13 09:17:14 · update #1
he might have a developmental disorder that causes him to act that way. it's not your place to say, really, but you might want to hint to your parents that his behavior is concerning you and try to get him tested for behavioral problems/disorders.
3 possible explanations:
ADHD-attention deficit hyperactiviy disoerder (causes ppl, not just kids, to lose fpcus and be generally wild)
ADD- attention deficit disorder- ppl have no attention span, cannot pay attention or procces instuctions well
ODD-oppositional defiance disorder- ppl constantly feel that they have to defy every suggestion, order, help they are given. constantly breaks/ignorals rules, may seem to have "no concience", openly defies authority figures
2006-07-12 13:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by june ッ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not sure what apples has to do with this question, but I do know a few things about little boys. If he is telling that he enjoys getting in trouble, then what he is really saying is that he enjoys the attention. This child needs discliplne, not medication. Is he just getting scolded or lectured? Then he has no reason to fear the reprisals. He needs more stringent punishments. As his brother you don't have much say in this, but it sounds to me like he should be getting spanked when he acts this way. Then he would have a reason to want to NOT get in trouble.
2006-07-12 23:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 04:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by mizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to get attention. Its not a disorder, so many people think therapy and medication is the way to go. I have been working with kids for about 7 or 8 years now and all the kids who are on medication dont need it. They just crave attention, and everyone who gets mad at him or gets him into trouble are giving him just that. Its bad though because if he continues this he will grow up to do something really dumb. Talk to him and find out what his interests are. When you find out what he likes to do then do it with him. If he likes to go play with toys, grab one of his toys and play with him. Redirect him into giving him attention that is not negative. Good luck, it will work
2006-07-12 19:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by niceguy4agze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My little brother is the same way... and hes 12! Give your little brother a little extra attention. Younger siblings always think the older ones get the best of everything so the act up a little to get some extra attention.
2006-07-12 15:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by maeknits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to run around to release that energy. Is he getting disciplined at home? Sound like he is not. Need to take care of this before it is too late. Take it one step further that he can get into serious trouble on the streets or even jail. You know that they have t.v. shows about parents being afraid of their children, have to lock their doors and stuff.
2006-07-12 12:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your brother behaves normally at home , but not at school, there is a problem with the school environment. Usually a child will misbehave in order to get attention.
2006-07-17 10:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knpw what? He needs something to put his little busy hands to. Find a sport or hobby that he likes and maybe that will lessen the amount of trouble he makes.
2006-07-12 11:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by hot chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he get punished for what he does if so how??? What does he have to fear to make him stop??? Is he looking for attention in the wrong way?? Maybe some big brother time would help.
2006-07-12 11:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Bryannon N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feel like if he did bad thing he wil get more attention from your parents. Your parent should sit and have a talk with him to find out what is wrong with him.
2006-07-12 11:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋