i have this bf that i have been dating for 3 years.. he moved in with me about 2 months ago and now im not so shure if i want him here any more... i think i love him. but sometimes i wish he would just leave.. i know if he did id be sad.. i dont know im so confused about this whole thing. we argue all the time about the most stupidest things.. is it normal? is it just because were together too much? is it cause i really do want him gone? if you been kinda in the same place please help me out.. i have way mixed feelings. thanx
2006-07-12 11:09:14 · 4 answers · asked by dubichick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you and bf argue all the time, esp over stupid things (the source usually goes deeper) then I would say that you don't have a very good match or relationship.
Why waste your time on something that isn't good?
Drop it and go find someone that is a better match for you, and release him so he can do the same.
2006-07-12 11:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for you to feel like that. The truth is... don't move in with ur bf or gf until u get married. I mean u start seeing him everyday and he's not ur f**king husband/wife...then ur mind kicks in and starts giving u these f**king ideas. Never move in unless u're married. You guys need space... that way you miss him... he misses you.
2006-07-12 18:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by evilman_chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is he isn't giving you the gift of missing him. think of how you'd feel if your guy went on vacation for weeks and there was no phone contact . how happy and thrilled do you think you'd be when he returns?? absence makes the heart grow fonder. with him living with you, you can't miss him.
if you really love this guy and want to keep him but you just don't want to live with him anymore, you should discuss it with him.
2006-07-12 18:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by locksmithite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i had those best thing to do is tellem how u feel and if he cant understand t then maybe u guys werent meant for each other
2006-07-12 18:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck Norris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋