What's wrong with me!?

Question

Iam 18 years old and I still dont have a boyfriend. Yeah I had one relationship for 3 years from 13 to 16 but, now I ve got noone. Iam in college and Iam still lonely. I just wonder do I look that bad. I mean sometimes its okay but my friends all have their boyfriends to talk about. Iam not desprete for a boyfriend its just that I'd like to have someone to talk and go out with to., besides my sisters and their boyfriends. My younger sister is 16 and dating! Then I decided I'd let God give someone to me, but I guess Iam on hold cause Iam still by myself in my apartment on Saturday nights. I dont have that many expectations except that you dont smoke, drink and have goals. Is that so hard to ask.

Oh yea and is I could I put my pcture here so you could help me out, but I dont know haw. Could someone let me know that too.

Or you can go to my e-mail and view my picture on facebook .com and my username is [e-mail] or you can just type in my name on the search icon which is Mashicka and see me there

Answer 1

don't let it get you down... part of it is having faith that God will bring you someone wonderful...the rest of it is up to you. take care of yourself, make yourself happy, be confident in yourself and how you look and feel, and just work on being the best person u can be, in school, with friends, with family, etc. that will make you an attractive person to other people, and don't think in negative terms. you're not alone cuz there's something wrong with you; you're alone because you haven't found someone that is special and right for you. until then, no need to feel alone. keep your mind open, and go out w/ friends, make sure socially you are comfortable with all types of people, or strangers in class, bars, etc. being able to talk to anyone and feeling comfortable wherever you are will help you meet someone with similar mindset.

i actually didn't date until i was in college!! and i didn't have any good, meaning relationships until AFTER college.. and my boyfriend now i met at church...he is wonderful and i am very happy. and i am 26 years old.. so don't give up hope! just keep on living life to the fullest and make sure u are happy regardless of having a man.. that way when you have a man you can be even MORE happy! :)