2006-07-12 10:57:14 · 13 answers · asked by tracy h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably because she doesn't have a good enough self opinion of who she is and what she deserves in life. Men will find a weakness in how you view yourself and exploit it if you let them. We all have our insecurities. The key is to know what they are and to not let someone take advantage of that. We all desire to be loved but we have to make the choice to not settle for being treated poorly just to obtain it. She needs to stand up to a guy the second he treats her poorly even if it means he runs away, instead of making excuses for him or thinking that it is worth it for love.
2006-07-12 11:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because she is not secure enought about who she is. She gives in and doesn't stand up for her self and fight back. Its generally a self esteem problem. She is so busy doing all the giving and the men do all the taking, and then eventually these men just move on. Its a hard pattern to break. She needs to become more confident in herself and learn to stand up to these men. But until she realizes that she deserves as much from the men, as she is willing to give of herself, this pattern will not break. Buy her a self improvement book and tell her to "read" it. This is a start.
2006-07-13 04:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's obviously not her own person and thinks that having a man makes her complete in some way. Trust me, men don't find this attractive but will take advantage of her insecurities.
2006-07-12 11:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because she has a low self esteem. If she does, then she is going to be walked over. Tell her to take time out on her own without men for a while & enjoy life.
2006-07-12 11:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to learn to like and love herself more. Once she has done this she will realise that she is better than she is acting and she will find a nice man. If she comes across as desperate and low in self confidence she will get used. Tell her to walk proud and be choosey :-)
2006-07-12 11:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply because she allows it. You will be treated the way you allow yourself to be treated by anyone. Tell your friend to learn to love and respect herself first before getting into any type of relationship. That way if she is treated unfairly, she will have the self-respect to put her foot down and stand up to it and not endure it because she would know then that she doesn't deserve it.
"If you offer you hand and a man grabs your arm he is not worth your time...."
2006-07-13 03:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Iya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mate needs asertiveness and martial arts lessons...
So can be taught to dish some back... No its naff alll to do with lenght of skirt or willingness to have sex.
Plenty of fiesty can kick guy butt girls wear what they want and go with the guys they want, and fall in love but guys know not to mess or else.
These make good girl amtes and girlfriends
2006-07-12 11:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do women spoil relationships by asking stupid questions. she should be happy men think enough of her to let her be their doormat
2006-07-12 11:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to read "HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU" - it's the best book - it will change her life and i promise you she will be a doormat no more.
2006-07-12 11:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by soul patrol baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do she do to be the door mat? She need to stop thinking about them sometime and think about herself.
2006-07-12 11:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋