I hear a lot of stories about men cheating on their wives. Why do they get married if they are just going to cheat? Do men really cheat because their wives "let themeselves go" physically or lose interest in sex when they get married? I know that if or when I get married, I would LOVE having sex with my husband, all day, everyday, anytime and anyplace!!! Plus, I would always look good for him!!!!
2006-07-12 10:46:56 · 19 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheating has become more common in these times because the sexual revolution of the 60's has made it more socially acceptable. in the 1950's and before, a man or woman cheating on their spouse was frowned on by their peers and their reputation was ruined. plus, since women have left the household and into the workforce, men and women have more contact than before.
the best way to keep your husband from cheating is to sometimes act like a mistress instead of a wife but don't always be too available for sex. make him work for it now and then. flirt with him, tease him. plus, study and learn new ways to give him pleasure. sex can become dull and routine if done the same way for too long. but most important, ALWAYS STROKE HIS EGO!!!!!! many men cheat due to lack of appreciation. the trick to keeping any man is to behave the same way you did when you were dating. nagging him to take out the garbage or to not leave his underwear on the bathroom floor is not sexy.
2006-07-12 11:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been married for 13 years. It did get boring for a while. And yes , we screwed like rabbits for the first year. It however started to get boring. Until however we started introducing toys and getting more adventureous. The more honest we became with eachother the stronger the relationship grew. I think the biggest jump was the honesty part.
As far as the sex goes , after 13 years I will still leave work in a heartbeat if she says she wants to play. And we still play often.
2006-07-12 10:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by 4-Speed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, you sound like you would make someone a great wife! I know of two people at work who had an adulteress affair- he was in it for the fun& games- she was in it for the attention her husband wasn't giving her . I believe if a partner is an honest & decent person to start with- then they might be driven to cheat only if something is missing in the relationship that was there in the beginning.
2006-07-12 10:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have to grow up quickly, taking care of their little brothers or sisters and gettign jobs at really early ages. They lose their childhood in this day and age because they have to take on that "role" too soon and lose that chance to be boys.. Some are just irresponsible and give up on their marriages and go out and have a fling. Not all men are pigs, although sometimes I myself have felt there are not any good men on this planet... I am sure they are out there.. I just haven't met them yet....
2006-07-12 10:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what my ex said too. But it changes, I actually think the women get bored with the men and that's why the sex drive goes down and they let themselves go. A mans sex drive remains in high gear hence the cheating.
2006-07-12 10:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Timovgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry me!
I was married for 17 years and never cheated... we had a good sex life every night with a monthly interruption, I never felt the need to look elsewhere for this kind of thing... I got married because i loved her I thought I we would get old and smell of wee together but it was not to be she said we grew apart. there was no letting go in this case she got big when she was pregnant and got small again whan she wasnt..
I never got bored, I had offers from women, but refused them... but here I sit divorced...
2006-07-12 10:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think because they are MEN that that is an excuse for them cheating. "I'm a man, Its in my nature." BULLSHIT!!!!. Its like a world wide excuse for men to cheat. Its a shame really. These days it seems like only a few strong men that have self-control and morals r the only ones who r faithful. Maybe u could get one of the few and hopefully the other good women who want one as well.
2006-07-12 10:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a couple kids,work all day and then come back and tell us if you still want sex 24-7 and want to look good all the time--in the real world where people work and have children,,sex is not the #1 priority in a marriage,,neither is looking good and sexy everynight for ur man....and yeah there prob is men who cheat on thier wives buts thats because they are ungrateful and selfish pigs!! dont get me wrong i love sex and i would love to make love to my hubby everynight but it just aint possible!!
2006-07-12 10:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's men being lazy with their relationships. We men should love and adore our wives no matter what. If we men make the effort with our relationships with our wives, we won't want to cheat and we will always be happy with them.
2006-07-12 11:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by spockofvullcan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its overrated. The thing you are missing is that even if you did all those things real men want more, they never stop wanting or striving therefore you will need to bring women in from time to time to keep things new. Because there are only so many positions and you are only going to stay tight for so long,,
2006-07-12 10:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by St Guido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋