OK look, me n my crush agure ALL the time, over almost everything. We talked about it and thought that if we wrote 5 things down for the other person to work on so we wouldn't fight all the time that it would help. But now we don't talk as much and have nothin to talk about. What do I do? I don't want us to stop talking I really really love him alot with all my heart!
2006-07-12 10:23:47 · 16 answers · asked by game_freak517 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's good that you don't keep things hidden. Best to be honest, even if that's gonna cause some tension. If you're willing to talk and he keeps it short, maybe it's something you wrote down. Talk about what you guys wrote down cautiously without any negative words. (accusations, harsh criticism, etc.) Spend some quality time together that don't need a whole lot of words, like the movies or something. If he's not willing to make at least some sacrifices and/or commitments, then you have to look at what his intentions are for a possible commitment.
2006-07-12 10:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by lovemonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not in love your care for this person you want to be around this person but your not in love. A crush is always somebody you become enfatuated with and it is ALWAYS mistaken for love, the fact of the matter is if he has a crush on you too then it is not uncommon that you do argue. when children are younger they usually bully the guys/girls that they like in a playful manner because they have a crush on them not knowing any better. In this case it is two people who are more grown but the same pattern. If you really want things to work you need to not make a list of what needs to change but make a list of what has changed and work backwards odds are everything would have worked out if you didnt try so hard to make them work, go back and make a list of five things that have changed and you will realize what you need to do.
2006-07-12 10:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are in a cold spot in the relationship. Focus only on him for a while and don't be selfish. He will see that you are really trying to make it work and he will eventually do the same. But beware, that he may take advantage of this, and if he does you should find another somebody to love.
2006-07-12 10:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to know when to realize that maybe things just aren't meant to be. Sure some people find the person they're completely compatible with pretty earlier on but most will have to go through many boy/girl friends to have someone to really be happy with....
2006-07-12 10:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by KVC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else.
gawd dammit what's the big deal.. what are you like 14-16 right?
do you REALLY think that you are going to be with this little boy forever?
do you have seperation anxiouty? are you a needy lil brat? you are never goingt o know what it is to be an adult if you attach yourself to a pimple face, skateboarding, masterbating lil sh!t all the damn time.. if it doesn't work get over it.. and concentrate on school
2006-07-12 10:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love is not petty argueing. Find a more mature man with better ways to communicate. Heartbreaks only last a minute in comparison to finding true love.
2006-07-12 10:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you've been unhappy on your relationship, you made the right decision. Staying in a relationship that wasn't going everywhere ought to have in basic terms damage him in the destiny. inspite of if he, and also you, are unhappy now, it type of feels as although your decision became maximum proper. you mustn't in any respect sacrifice your happiness for all people. in case you nevertheless care about him sufficient to be worried about him although, that is excellent-- a threat be there for him without being his lady friend.
2016-10-14 09:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to give each other some space and do things separately for a while. You probably spend too much time together.
2006-07-12 10:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! who came up with that silly idea. it just causes more problems. go back to basic, remember how you were in love with him @ the first time? think back when you were first together. each issue needs to come to a compromise; work on one. then see what happens.
2006-07-12 10:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are talkative. Bring up the "five" list again. Check progress.
2006-07-12 10:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋