i was with this guy for about 4 years,we split up,and i meet some1 else....i have seen my ex when my previous bf and i had problems,because i thought i loved him,we didnt do anything as a matter of fact,i thought what the hell was i thinking with him? the ? is this,im still with my bf of 2 years,and i keep dreaming of my ex??? i dont know why,all the dreams are about us being together!? what does that sh1t mean? am i nuts!?
2006-07-12 10:12:17 · 27 answers · asked by dawn ella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like i said when i seen him...i wasnt at all attracted to him like i thought...even thought what did i see in him? now all the sudden,he's coming back to me in dreams for 2 nights straight?
2006-07-12 10:13:26 · update #1
dreams are a release that has nothing to do with the concious but subconcious and past experiences. it may just be the oddity of the misfiring brain in effect. no you are not nuts, it is an uncontrollable thing that happens.
2006-07-12 10:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody knows what dreams are, and if you honestly don't feel anything for him when you see him in person, then don't think your dreams are some kind of unconscious manifestation of your love for him.
Lots of people long to go back to old relationships once they are in a healthy, working relationship. They want to replay events over with the knowledge they now have (of how to make a relationship work), wishing that they wouldn't have screwed that first relationship up. It has nothing to do with the individual, they just want to remedy that failure in their life. Best advice would be to try and forget about it and enjoy your new guy.
2006-07-12 10:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him he is history. You think of him mainly when you had personal problems he was there when you needed someone to discuss matters with. But there has to be a reason he is an ex and not a current. An old saying is- a dream you dream alone is one thing. A dream you dream together is reality!
2006-07-12 10:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you still have a spark for him...Check the situation if it allows that you both have a chance to get back together...make an attempt..If you just dream about does not always mean there may be a chance..ok maybe if you woke uo totally excited and wet??..If not then it was just a dream...go have dinner with him and then wrap up the evening with good love making...If you feel afterward that you thought it was like have sex with your brother..then move on...Maybe you just have a chapter to close...give it a shot
2006-07-12 10:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by nuance92551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably has nothing to do with him at all. Dreams are weird like that. If you have a dream book look it up. I'm going to guess it means your insecure about something in your life. Not necessairly your current bf, but something in your life. By the way, congrats on 2 years with your new bf!
2006-07-12 10:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are wierd-- this could just mean you have an unresolved problem you need to tell him about-- Or, Your newer relationship might be reminding you of thing you and your ex experienced.. Dont lose one relationship on the basis of a dream.. dreams are silly things that we give too much power to.
2006-07-12 10:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cannot cotrol their dreams. If you saw him and didn't get any butterflies then you probably don't like him anymore. You probably just dreamed about him because you saw him and remembered the time you were together. People have really weird dreams. They can't help it and what happens in their dreams doesn't mean that that is what they want or it is how they feel.
2006-07-12 10:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, dreams are almost never about what they seem like on the surface. Your brain is just putting a familiar person from your past into a role that could really be any body.
2006-07-12 10:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you fall in love with someone the mutual connection that is established between the couple never really vanishes. I dont want to say you still love him, but part of those uncontrolled feelings that allow us to fall in love naturally, still live inside you. You must had really loved him at one point and so, the love you felt for him really engraved in your heart. This is why you might think you dont love him anymore but you taught your consience to love him, so subconsiusly he still lives in you. I got a feeling you're never really going to forget him. You might be with another man,and feel like you love him, but no one can deny true love. Try seeing the guy again and analyze thorughly what you feel for him at that very moment you see him, without lying to your self.
2006-07-12 10:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by stud989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only 2 nights and what it means is that you're thinking of him subconsciously...no big deal. 4 years is a long time to be with someone, I'm sure there will always be some kind of feelings involved there.
2006-07-12 10:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jill S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋