I like my boyfriend and all..I really do. But I think I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend. I have only been dating my boyfriend for about a week and a half, but all I have been able to think about is my ex. So my question is, should I break up with him?
2006-07-12 09:40:53 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yesterday, my ex admitted to me that breaking up with me was the biggest mistake of his life. This morning, I broke up with my boyfriend...but I'm giving me time to think before I get back together with my ex.
2006-07-13 06:07:23 · update #1
You should tell him you really like him and thought you were ready for a new relationship, but you aren't. That you need some more time before you start dating again and you don't want to hurt him.
Good Luck.
2006-07-12 09:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. It's not fair to the new guy if you still have feelings for your ex. You need to get over your ex before getting into a new relationship. I would be honest with the new guy, though. Maybe you can still be friends (after all it's only been a week). Good luck!
2006-07-12 09:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get to far into the relationship if you still have feelings for your ex. It will just be hurting the both of you. If you don't want to be with your current boyfriend just let him know. Then go have a talk with your ex. And don't go back to the current bf if the ex doesn't want to have a relationship anymore.
2006-07-12 09:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by momma_v01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to shoot into the dark here and assume that you steal talk with your ex. Remember, you broke up for a reason. You may not end up with the guy you're with now, but give him a chance (in the whole spectrum of a relationship, 2 weeks isn't a whole lot.)
2006-07-12 09:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have given your new boyfriend a chance. A week and a half is not much time for you to really even get to know him. I would wait a month or so and then see how you feel.
2006-07-12 09:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is a 100% chance that you will NOT get back with your ex, stay with the current guy. also think about the reason you guys broke up. you may just be missing the fact that he already knew your secrets and now you dont have the intimacy of the old relationship. try and find what it is you are actually missing; it may be a different aspect of the relationship you miss, not the actual guy.
2006-07-12 09:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by saint with grenades 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. i'm in the complete same situation. except i've been dating my current boyfriend for weeks..which isn't a long time..but yeah,you never really forget your last boyfriend. in a way i think you're comparing them..obviously something happened between you and your ex that just didn't work out. see how things go..wait another week. if you can't get someone out of your head,they're probably suppose to be in there : ]
2006-07-12 09:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need closier from the ex. Yeah take a break, go back to the ex.
2006-07-12 09:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb u need time 2 sort out ur heart u don't need 2 break up with ur bf but u do need 2 ask him 2 take it slow. He might b understanding afta all its only a week n a half he might grow on u
2006-07-12 09:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rannet P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since I am an emotional rock on matters like this I can safely say to leave now... other wise... you will just string him along and that isn't fair. If you like the other person then go to them. Don't play with people. You know if you still want the other person, so to say you think you do, means you do. Make up your mind.
2006-07-12 09:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by need to know basis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋